headsashed Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 1st things 1st,its been roughly 4 months since my ex cheated and broke up with me,at 1st it was hard but ive done everything right this time around regarding moving on with my life. Ive got a new job, re-joined my local football/soccer team, kept as busy as i can,reconnected with old friends and tbh im feeling pretty good. I still have my down days and i still think about and miss my ex from time to time but i can easily cope now. Ive heard from the ex on several occasions but i wont get into that as theres no point really,ive ignored 99% of her crap. So yeah,im doing pretty good these days i can safely say that if she came crawling back that id be strong enough to tell her where to go. Now onto this date,ive been talkin to this woman for a little while and tonight shes asked if i want to go on a date,ive said yes but we havent sorted out when or where yet. I dont know if im 100% ready but shes been making me smile lately so i who knows, and when we do talk i dont even think about the ex. I know that if anything is to happen then i need to go at a snails pace.
Brokendude Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 Thats a great sign that ur on the right track to healing no matter what happens. Just go with an open mind and go at ur pace, uve been thru hell these last few months and u deserve to be happy! Hope all goes well man and i truly hope that u can turn the page soon, have fun tonight dude
Author headsashed Posted August 26, 2012 Author Posted August 26, 2012 Thanx pal, I know ive been through hell lately,losing my gf,my friend being killed etc and ive had to deal with everything on my own for these past 4 months. I suppose it only makes me stronger and stronger ive become,that i know. I also know i deserve to be happy now,and people like my ex doesnt deserve me,ive always been and faithful bf and always tried my hardest to put a smile on someones face,sadly that wasnt enough for my ex but maybe just maybe it will be enough for my next gf,whenever that happens lol. I know my faults too which i will try rectify in my next relationship and that can only help make it more stable. I wouldnt say im 100% over my ex but im pretty damn far now. Ill no doubt still have my down days but i can easily cope now which is good. 1 of my closest friends said to me that 1 day my luck has to change because ive had alot of bad luck recently,well on friday i had great news,ive had this ongoing tribunal thing going on for months and on friday i won it,ive quite abit of money to come back so that is going to help me out so much financially,im planning an holiday within the next few weeks too,even though its with my parents and sadly its the place where me and my ex always went,but i wont let that bother me. To get asked on a date felt great too,it shows that my confidence and sense of humour is growing again, im going to go to this date with a very open mind and just see what happens,my hopes aint up so if nothing good comes from it then i wont feel crushed so much. Heres to a better life!!
Author headsashed Posted August 26, 2012 Author Posted August 26, 2012 So,my date is tonight,and i have to admit that i excited lol. Ive been smiling most the day haha,fingers crossed it goes well. 1
Author headsashed Posted August 27, 2012 Author Posted August 27, 2012 A little bit of an update... The date went rather well,we went for food then we went bowling,then bac to mine for a dvd. We got on really well which is good,,she stopped at mine too and not once did i think about my ex,not even this morning when i got up. Surely this is a sign im really moving forward with my life?. Im going to see this girl again but im taking it slow,im think maybe another date next weekend and just go like that and see how things go because its going to take something really special for me to let my guard down on my heart. 1
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