Clarice Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 Me and my bf broke up 2 months ago, i'm not quite sure who broke up with who but I guess I initiated it and he just went and packed his stuff without even trying to sort it so I guess at most it was mutual?? I have had the worst year of my life, my mum passed away and a couple of weeks after her funeral I found out my now ex had given his number to a girl he worked with. They were texting back and forth and he was deleting them. He said he had no interest in her which I didn't believe (he had flirted around quite a lot in the past) but I was and still am in such a bad place. I tried to carry on as normal but I just kept snapping at him as I couldn't believe he could do this to me at such a hard time in my life. We have not spoken since and I am finding it so hard to move on. I love him so much and miss him terribly. I still have no idea why he did this to us and all he said was "I don't know"! How can I get over this? I have thought about contacting him but I just don't think I could deal with the rejection. I have so many unanswered questions. The day he left he said he was still in love with me but how could he have been? He didn't even say sorry! How can he just cut me out of his life? How do I get over him? He was already on dating sites a couple of weeks after the split. Does he really not care? I need some advice as I can't ask him, he seems to hate me. Please help!
Canadian731 Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 You are focusing too much on him durin this breakup, the real person you need to be thinking about right now is yourself, you need to be strong for you. In order to get through this breakup you need to find the strength to realize it is over and start the grieving process. I know it sounds hard and seems a bit harsh to just say the relationship is over but if you keep holding on to this relationship you will be in the same place 2 months from now that you are now. Best of luck hun
Author Clarice Posted August 25, 2012 Author Posted August 25, 2012 Thanks for the reply and I know you are right! I think the loss of 2 people so close together has thrown me into panic mode even though I know he was probably no good for me. I need to concentrate on myself but I don't know how? I have a good job, my family, my friends but I still feel so low like I can't enjoy anything anymore
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