anne1707 Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 size 10-16? Holy cow Unless she is a super built fitness model with a huge muscular ass, size 10-16 will look fat ThaWholigan lives in England with a different sizing system to the US. Sizes 10-16 here equate to 6-12 or 8-14 in the US depending on different conversions I have seen used.
todreaminblue Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 LMAO! I understood about half of what you said and then the rest escaped me o.O. I agree with that quote though. I think I'll add that to my list of quotes thats ok i still dont understand demi sexual so we are even......smilin...no one understands half of what i write, so you aint alone and i aint changing......deb 1
Negative Nancy Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 What are your tastes both physically and mentally? Have your preferences changed? As for myself Physically: Like most people I prefer women to be healthy, I have to be honest I don't like fat girls (fatness unconsciously tells me you lack self-control and probably unhealthy), I prefer women to be thinner, but I also love curvy girls (curvy is alot different than just be simply fat, fat is having a double chin, fat rolling over and out of your pants, and no real figure, curvy is wide hips, big butt, larger breasts, etc.). I also love femininity in a girl (this is hard to describe), and I have a thing for long hair I don't know why but really long hair especially if its kept up is a major turn on, but its not a requirement or anything. I also like tall women as well, maybe because I'm tall I don't know, but short girls are beautiful as well. I prefer her to not dress...well slutty (can't think of a nicer name) as well, a dress is far more beautiful than booty shorts. Mentally: This is the most important, I prefer a woman who is honest, loyal, responsible and friendly over anything else. Intelligence is also very important, I see myself as an intelligent person and I would love to have someone to converse with. I also like nerdy/geeky characteristics in a woman as well, since I'm also extremely nerdy my own self and its nice to have things in common. Also preferably she should be a Christian like myself. how telling that the physical list is longer than the mental one so yes, you are the typical average man. what else is new?
Negative Nancy Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 To sum up the OP: I find the exact stereotypical "hot" girl attractive. Discuss! Exactly my point.
Eclypse Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 Physically: My tastes haven't changed much since I was a teenager. The two most important characteristics are that she be slender and have a pretty face. Height is not important although I might be intimidated by a woman taller than me! I know a girl who is almost 6'2 and she is a bit taller than me. That might be hard to get over. I prefer medium-long hair, not a fan of the butch style or hair down to her butt. Anything in between is usually fine. Her hair and skin should look healthy. A nice glow is always nice. A pretty smile is also important. Boob size doesn't really bother me, unless it makes her look really disproportionate. Ass size I don't have a preference either, although a Kim Kardashian style bubble butt might be a bit too much. Mentally: Able to hold a good conversation. Is intelligent. It is important that she is educated (not necessarily a university degree, but must be aware of the world and what is going on. A knowledge of history and current events is sexy as we'll be able to discuss a lot more things). She must be nice and loyal. I'd prefer her to not be a party girl because I don't like big parties much myself and I don't think I'd fit in. If she's religious that's ok, as long as I'm not forced to swallow any of it or go to church. We should also have a similar moral compass and agree on many things. Now that list isn't too hard is it?
Author Necris Posted August 26, 2012 Author Posted August 26, 2012 how telling that the physical list is longer than the mental one so yes, you are the typical average man. what else is new? The physical list needed more explaining, the mental list was more straightforward and its the most important one loyalty, honesty, intelligence and qualities like that are pretty straight-forward. Anyway again what's wrong with having physical likes? Also I'm not saying someone has to have all those qualities for me to date them, that would be extremely picky it would be hard enough to find someone with those qualities and impossible to find someone with those qualities who also wants to be with me, its already impossible for me to find someone anyway. That was just a composite of things I find attractive I'm pretty sure you have preferences and things you feel are attractive as well, why not list them?
Disenchantedly Yours Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 Physically, my ideal man would be tall, kind of slender but with a bit of a belly, with a beard or goatee, who wears baseball caps and drives a truck. (Note: I have never dated a man with all these characteristics.) That is interestingly specific maybealone!
StillReigning Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 how telling that the physical list is longer than the mental one so yes, you are the typical average man. what else is new? LOLed hard at your delusion Did he not say "Mentally: This is the most important" ?
Author Necris Posted August 26, 2012 Author Posted August 26, 2012 LOLed hard at your delusion Did he not say "Mentally: This is the most important" ? Yes I did say that, a woman's personality is by far the most important, if she's hot but also a terrible person I honestly wouldn't want to be around her, the personality can really enhance someone's beauty or make them appear just ugly. Anyway I do find it odd when a guy says he like's certain physical traits in women there is always a kneejerk response saying he's shallow.
ptp Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 Physically: I am sucker for a pretty face, so if I like a girl's face, not much else matters. Personality: I want some qualities that are similar to me, like loyal, punctual, honest and shares my sense of humor. I also want to some qualities that are different such as not being a homebody, more of a risk taker and feminine.
StillReigning Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 Yes I did say that, a woman's personality is by far the most important, if she's hot but also a terrible person I honestly wouldn't want to be around her, the personality can really enhance someone's beauty or make them appear just ugly. Anyway I do find it odd when a guy says he like's certain physical traits in women there is always a kneejerk response saying he's shallow. Woman says: I want a handsome, athletic guy with a 9 inch cock and a ripped six pack Women respond: You go girl Man says: I want a cute girl who is not fat Women respond: Oh my god, what the hell is wrong with you? How dare you demand a woman not be fat? Don't you know that it's much easier for a man to have a six pack than a woman to not be a giant whale? Female logic, get used to it 2
ptp Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 Woman says: I want a handsome, athletic guy with a 9 inch cock and a ripped six pack Women respond: You go girl Man says: I want a cute girl who is not fat Women respond: Oh my god, what the hell is wrong with you? How dare you demand a woman not be fat? Don't you know that it's much easier for a man to have a six pack than a woman to not be a giant whale? Female logic, get used to it There is a lot of hypocrisy on this board. Women are just as superficial as guys. 1
GirlontheLam Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 Here's what I end up looking for: Physical: great smile (dimples are bonus points), boyishly attractive face, strong shoulders, no skinny legs (I hate the unbalanced look), taller than me (I am pretty average height so this is easy), I tend to go for olive complexion or darker. Don't usually like white men at all. Personality: smart and intellectually curious, wry or sarcastic sense of humor, creativity (photography, cooking, music, art or other creative outlet), social, passionate About something, ambitious and driven Interests: a techie, foodie or semi-foodie, travel
Jane2011 Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 I like when a guy does the "crooked grin" thing. Also, nowadays I'm noticing I like a guy with full lips. Not huge, but just average to full(ish). I doubt I'd ever be attracted to a guy who just has ever-so-slight "lines" for lips. I'm seeing a guy now who has really nice lips. I like just looking at them when he's talking. Sometimes I don't even know what he's saying, I'm just looking at his lips
somedude81 Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 Waiting for somebody to say they prefer a guy 5'7 or under.
VodkaShots Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 Woman says: I want a handsome, athletic guy with a 9 inch cock and a ripped six pack Women respond: You go girl Man says: I want a cute girl who is not fat Women respond: Oh my god, what the hell is wrong with you? How dare you demand a woman not be fat? Don't you know that it's much easier for a man to have a six pack than a woman to not be a giant whale? Female logic, get used to it I've seen a lot differently.. Woman: I want an attractive boyfriend (regardless of how attractive she is or isn't) Other people: Don't worry about that. It's all about personality, looks are just superficial, etc etc etc etc Men: I want an attractive slim blonde or brunette girlfriend. I'm only attracted to these women. (Even though he himself is about 300lbs and/or close to 50, etc) Other people: Just have a nice personality, be caring, honest, etc. Any woman who says you're ugly are just superficial and shallow and not worth your time.
Mycteria Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 My desires/attractions (and note that I do not expect one person to meet them all), these are just the things that turn me on... Physical: Beautiful, pretty, handsome faces. Intense eyes. Fair skin. Long or messy hair. Slender and fit. Treasure trails, but not too much body hair. Cocks. Hands, especially bony hands. Clavicles. Nice jaws. I am seriously a connoisseur of male beauty. With women I am more picky. Mental: Chemistry is the most important thing. I like people (in general, not just for romantic/sexual purposes) who are full of life, passion, and dreams. Who are inspired and inspiring as visionaries and artsy-creative types. I like intelligence, but more more than that I like curiosity and an open mind. I like people who are interested and interesting, fascinated and fascinating. I like excited plans of traveling the world or living on a sailboat, I love romance in every sense of the word. I love dark and brooding thinkers. I love men who are pure and picky and also who are completely debauched. I like hunter-prey dynamics, energetic (true) dominance, and kink. I like a man I can respect and admire, who I can believe in. I like a man who can cry and be protective and loving. I like enthusiasm for me, even addiction. I like spontaneity, loyalty, mutual questionable sanity, nerds, intellectuals, artists, teachers, seekers, adventurers, kinksters, political activists... This list is unbelievably awesome. Can you please elaborate on what you mean by "true" or "energetic" dominance?
Tiera D Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 a woman my race,looks cute to me does not have to be hot,acceptable personality (no clingy or unreasonable behaviour) , stays loyal ,willing to discuss any relationship issue in a mature manner (all my exes lack this) thats about it but its so hard to get a girl like that nowdays TD
LC1976 Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 I've seen a lot differently.. Woman: I want an attractive boyfriend (regardless of how attractive she is or isn't) Other people: Don't worry about that. It's all about personality, looks are just superficial, etc etc etc etc Men: I want an attractive slim blonde or brunette girlfriend. I'm only attracted to these women. (Even though he himself is about 300lbs and/or close to 50, etc) Other people: Just have a nice personality, be caring, honest, etc. Any woman who says you're ugly are just superficial and shallow and not worth your time. Men are much more forgiving then women when it comes to looks. I know I am going to take a ton of heat for this. But all the women I know are incredibly specific with what they find attractive. You will almost never see a woman who only dates tall, athletic blonds, date a short, average Latin guy. Where guys have a much broader interpretation of what they find attractive. I prefer curvy, ethnic looking women. My last gf was 5’10 and weighed 185lbs (I am 5’9 190ish), but I have also dated a 5’1 115lb blonde. And all the guys I know are the same. There are types we prefer, but we will date outside that if we think she is cute and cool. 1
silicone Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 My only physical requirement is that she is not fat. It is not a preference, it is a requirement. I can do curvy, but not fat. That said, if she is trying to lose fat, then you've instantly become attractive, limited, to me. Mentally? I think we all know the answer to this.
pteromom Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 Physically, I am attracted to a guy who has a good smile and twinkly eyes with a hint of mischievousness in them. I can overlook a lot of other physical "flaws" if he has those two things. But if I was building my perfect guy from scratch, he'd be tallish with broad shoulders. He'd have short light-colored hair (blonde or light brown). He'd be slightly stocky but not fat. He'd dress well but not be a "metrosexual" type. Personality-wise, I am attracted to guys who are happy and smiling and loving life. Someone who likes to laugh, and is always respectful of other people. He has opinions but is open to allowing others to have their own opinions without thinking less of them. He's friendly and helpful and giving and courteous.
AD1980 Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 Men are much more forgiving then women when it comes to looks. I know I am going to take a ton of heat for this. But all the women I know are incredibly specific with what they find attractive. You will almost never see a woman who only dates tall, athletic blonds, date a short, average Latin guy. Where guys have a much broader interpretation of what they find attractive. I prefer curvy, ethnic looking women. My last gf was 5’10 and weighed 185lbs (I am 5’9 190ish), but I have also dated a 5’1 115lb blonde. And all the guys I know are the same. There are types we prefer, but we will date outside that if we think she is cute and cool. I agree..men are much more versatile and bending when it comes to who we can find physically attratcive.. My friend whos a good looking dude has women swarming over him even the married women in our social cricle..they act like hes the last attratcive man on earth..
maybealone Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 That is interestingly specific maybealone! But I don't have preferences for hair color or any other specific things! And that's just my ideal man, the kind of man I am a sucker for. Like I said, I never actually dated anyone who looked exactly like that. Actually, I've only really dated one tall guy in my whole life. I agree..men are much more versatile and bending when it comes to who we can find physically attratcive.. I agree, but I also think a lot of women will find that a man becomes more attractive the more she gets to know him, whereas men usually don't change change their opinions of the attractiveness of a woman. 1
LC1976 Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 But I don't have preferences for hair color or any other specific things! And that's just my ideal man, the kind of man I am a sucker for. Like I said, I never actually dated anyone who looked exactly like that. Actually, I've only really dated one tall guy in my whole life. I agree, but I also think a lot of women will find that a man becomes more attractive the more she gets to know him, whereas men usually don't change change their opinions of the attractiveness of a woman. I am sorry, but I am going to disagree with this. I have never, ever seen a man going from friendzone to boyfriend. Once a woman has put you into that catagory in her head...you ain't getting out.
ThaWholigan Posted August 27, 2012 Posted August 27, 2012 I am sorry, but I am going to disagree with this. I have never, ever seen a man going from friendzone to boyfriend. Once a woman has put you into that catagory in her head...you ain't getting out. Psshh. It happens. It just doesn't happen the way people think it happens. 1
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