Necris Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 What are your tastes both physically and mentally? Have your preferences changed? As for myself Physically: Like most people I prefer women to be healthy, I have to be honest I don't like fat girls (fatness unconsciously tells me you lack self-control and probably unhealthy), I prefer women to be thinner, but I also love curvy girls (curvy is alot different than just be simply fat, fat is having a double chin, fat rolling over and out of your pants, and no real figure, curvy is wide hips, big butt, larger breasts, etc.). I also love femininity in a girl (this is hard to describe), and I have a thing for long hair I don't know why but really long hair especially if its kept up is a major turn on, but its not a requirement or anything. I also like tall women as well, maybe because I'm tall I don't know, but short girls are beautiful as well. I prefer her to not dress...well slutty (can't think of a nicer name) as well, a dress is far more beautiful than booty shorts. Mentally: This is the most important, I prefer a woman who is honest, loyal, responsible and friendly over anything else. Intelligence is also very important, I see myself as an intelligent person and I would love to have someone to converse with. I also like nerdy/geeky characteristics in a woman as well, since I'm also extremely nerdy my own self and its nice to have things in common. Also preferably she should be a Christian like myself.
tori0001 Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 You're asking for a lot in one person, aren't you. All I ask is that the person I may be interested in is to be respectful. All the physical stuff is shallow and doesn't last for ever, but a personality does.
Author Necris Posted August 25, 2012 Author Posted August 25, 2012 You're asking for a lot in one person, aren't you. All I ask is that the person I may be interested in is to be respectful. All the physical stuff is shallow and doesn't last for ever, but a personality does. Those are not requirements just attributes I find attractive.
Titanwolf Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 Physically- As long as a girl isn't obese or anorexic, I'm game. (Bearing in mind that I'm a demisexual). Mentally- Witty and charismatic. A girl who can say what's on her mind, when something is bothering her. One with a sharp tongue and isn't afraid to grill me for not training that day. One who knows how to reflect upon the thoughts that leads to her actions and empathy is a must. I like a girl to be equally as restless as I am and have a natural desire to want to travel and engage in activities that pushes the body to the limit. I don't like women who even attempt to manipulate me in ANY way. I need (and have) a straight forward girl, who won't give me the silent treatment and harbour resentment, if something I have done is bothering her. she WILL tell me exactly, what the **** I've done and how it can be fixed . I like a girl who likes a good fight every now and again (physically or mentally lool) 1
SmileFace Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 Physically- As long as a girl isn't obese or anorexic, I'm game. (Bearing in mind that I'm a demisexual). Mentally- Witty and charismatic. A girl who can say what's on her mind, when something is bothering her. One with a sharp tongue and isn't afraid to grill me for not training that day. One who knows how to reflect upon the thoughts that leads to her actions and empathy is a must. I like a girl to be equally as restless as I am and have a natural desire to want to travel and engage in activities that pushes the body to the limit. I don't like women who even attempt to manipulate me in ANY way. I need (and have) a straight forward girl, who won't give me the silent treatment and harbour resentment, if something I have done is bothering her. she WILL tell me exactly, what the **** I've done and how it can be fixed . I like a girl who likes a good fight every now and again (physically or mentally lool) Have you had a sexual relationship yet? I just want to know if you have really been able to differentiate between asexual and demisexual.
Titanwolf Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 Have you had a sexual relationship yet? I just want to know if you have really been able to differentiate between asexual and demisexual. I have not . A girl tried to force me to have sex with her once, but I had NO interest in her sexually, (even though she was a very attractive girl) her personality did nothing for me (Let's do this, let's do that) and thus, I felt nothing. That's when I knew that I couldn't just sleep with a woman I didn't care for deeply (no homo )
SmileFace Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 I have not . A girl tried to force me to have sex with her once, but I had NO interest in her sexually, (even though she was a very attractive girl) her personality did nothing for me (Let's do this, let's do that) and thus, I felt nothing. That's when I knew that I couldn't just sleep with a woman I didn't care for deeply (no homo ) You're not against casual sex due to any of your beliefs, right?
Titanwolf Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 You're not against casual sex due to any of your beliefs, right? I don't do casual sex tbh, I have no interest in it.
todreaminblue Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 Physically- As long as a girl isn't obese or anorexic, I'm game. (Bearing in mind that I'm a demisexual). Mentally- Witty and charismatic. A girl who can say what's on her mind, when something is bothering her. One with a sharp tongue and isn't afraid to grill me for not training that day. One who knows how to reflect upon the thoughts that leads to her actions and empathy is a must. I like a girl to be equally as restless as I am and have a natural desire to want to travel and engage in activities that pushes the body to the limit. I don't like women who even attempt to manipulate me in ANY way. I need (and have) a straight forward girl, who won't give me the silent treatment and harbour resentment, if something I have done is bothering her. she WILL tell me exactly, what the **** I've done and how it can be fixed . I like a girl who likes a good fight every now and again (physically or mentally lool) is demi sexual mean you are looking for a demi moore to have sex with....i looked up demisexual in dictionary.com with no hits on it.I do agree with you on needing to not harbour resentment an old follow that i love to quote is never let the sun go down on an argument.......still confused about the demi thing,demi, she is a pretty woman.....quite decent if you leave out the proposal...so could understand a lot of guys being sexual over her....that sounds quite gross actually like an orgy with demi so i am stopping now.......deb 1
Titanwolf Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 is demi sexual mean you are looking for a demi moore to have sex with....i looked up demisexual in dictionary.com with no hits on it.I do agree with you on needing to not harbour resentment an old follow that i love to quote is never let the sun go down on an argument.......still confused about the demi thing,demi, she is a pretty woman.....quite decent if you leave out the proposal...so could understand a lot of guys being sexual over her....that sounds quite gross actually like an orgy with demi so i am stopping now.......deb LMAO! I understood about half of what you said and then the rest escaped me o.O. I agree with that quote though. I think I'll add that to my list of quotes
SmileFace Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 I don't do casual sex tbh, I have no interest in it. No that wasnt my question. Are you against it? Do you think it is wrong.
Titanwolf Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 No that wasnt my question. Are you against it? Do you think it is wrong. I am personally. I don't think it's wrong though, everyone's different. 1
effervescent Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 My desires/attractions (and note that I do not expect one person to meet them all), these are just the things that turn me on... Physical: Beautiful, pretty, handsome faces. Intense eyes. Fair skin. Long or messy hair. Slender and fit. Treasure trails, but not too much body hair. Cocks. Hands, especially bony hands. Clavicles. Nice jaws. I am seriously a connoisseur of male beauty. With women I am more picky. Mental: Chemistry is the most important thing. I like people (in general, not just for romantic/sexual purposes) who are full of life, passion, and dreams. Who are inspired and inspiring as visionaries and artsy-creative types. I like intelligence, but more more than that I like curiosity and an open mind. I like people who are interested and interesting, fascinated and fascinating. I like excited plans of traveling the world or living on a sailboat, I love romance in every sense of the word. I love dark and brooding thinkers. I love men who are pure and picky and also who are completely debauched. I like hunter-prey dynamics, energetic (true) dominance, and kink. I like a man I can respect and admire, who I can believe in. I like a man who can cry and be protective and loving. I like enthusiasm for me, even addiction. I like spontaneity, loyalty, mutual questionable sanity, nerds, intellectuals, artists, teachers, seekers, adventurers, kinksters, political activists... 2
verhrzn Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 To sum up the OP: I find the exact stereotypical "hot" girl attractive. Discuss! 1
maybealone Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 Physically, my ideal man would be tall, kind of slender but with a bit of a belly, with a beard or goatee, who wears baseball caps and drives a truck. (Note: I have never dated a man with all these characteristics.) Mentally, I like a guy who is attentive, funny, smart about some things, and who isn't lazy. Above all, however, is the ability to communicate. Ideally I would love a man who isn't afraid of telling me what he wants, especially in the bedroom. :-)
ThaWholigan Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 I find particular things attractive: Physically: I don't have requirements, but these are the things that really attract me on a physical level; I like dark, curly hair. I also like dark eyes. I'm unsurprisingly fond of darker complexions, from black to mixed, to Mediterranean. I like girls who are quite thick, like size 10-16 - in that bracket. With thick legs too! Mentally: I like girls who are straight shooters. Don't beat around the bush. Full of fire, yet intellectual. I do like a bad girl . But if they also have a more heartwarming side to their personality, a caring and warm center, then I'm sold. It also helps if they have a rounded sense of humor that errs on the side of risque & innuendo
O'farrell Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 My desires/attractions (and note that I do not expect one person to meet them all), these are just the things that turn me on... Physical: Beautiful, pretty, handsome faces. Intense eyes. Fair skin. Long or messy hair. Slender and fit. Treasure trails, but not too much body hair. Cocks. Hands, especially bony hands. Clavicles. Nice jaws. I am seriously a connoisseur of male beauty. With women I am more picky. Mental: Chemistry is the most important thing. I like people (in general, not just for romantic/sexual purposes) who are full of life, passion, and dreams. Who are inspired and inspiring as visionaries and artsy-creative types. I like intelligence, but more more than that I like curiosity and an open mind. I like people who are interested and interesting, fascinated and fascinating. I like excited plans of traveling the world or living on a sailboat, I love romance in every sense of the word. I love dark and brooding thinkers. I love men who are pure and picky and also who are completely debauched. I like hunter-prey dynamics, energetic (true) dominance, and kink. I like a man I can respect and admire, who I can believe in. I like a man who can cry and be protective and loving. I like enthusiasm for me, even addiction. I like spontaneity, loyalty, mutual questionable sanity, nerds, intellectuals, artists, teachers, seekers, adventurers, kinksters, political activists... you just described me
StillReigning Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 I find particular things attractive: Physically: I don't have requirements, but these are the things that really attract me on a physical level; I like dark, curly hair. I also like dark eyes. I'm unsurprisingly fond of darker complexions, from black to mixed, to Mediterranean. I like girls who are quite thick, like size 10-16 - in that bracket. With thick legs too! Mentally: I like girls who are straight shooters. Don't beat around the bush. Full of fire, yet intellectual. I do like a bad girl . But if they also have a more heartwarming side to their personality, a caring and warm center, then I'm sold. It also helps if they have a rounded sense of humor that errs on the side of risque & innuendo size 10-16? Holy cow Unless she is a super built fitness model with a huge muscular ass, size 10-16 will look fat
ThaWholigan Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 size 10-16? Holy cow Unless she is a super built fitness model with a huge muscular ass, size 10-16 will look fat Well, size 16 might. Bear in mind I like tall girls too, so likely sizes will be different depending on height.
StillReigning Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 (edited) Well, size 16 might. Bear in mind I like tall girls too, so likely sizes will be different depending on height. This is about size 6-8 I believe - http://forum.bodybuilding.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=4817493&d=1345942698 You like even bigger than that? Edited August 26, 2012 by StillReigning
VodkaShots Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 @ThaWholigan: Sorry to be a pedant, but size 10 isn't "thick" unless the girl is really short. It's an average slim womans dress size. I think you probably mean size 12-16? @StillReigning: ThaWholigan is referring to UK dress sizes. Not US or wherever ones. To the OP. Physical: Age: 18-28(ish). Height: Taller than me (I am 5'3"). The taller the more attractive. Facial hair: No beards or moustaches, I find them gross. I love the rugged/rough look, or if not, then clean shaven. Side burns are kinda hot too. Eyes: Don't care about eye colour. I think all eye colours can be attractive. Body type: I find facial attractiveness most important, so I'm completely happy with an average and untoned body, although I do find toned and bodybuilder physiques really attractive too. Not interested in men who are too out of shape/obese.. i.e. rolls of fat, no neck, no cheekbones, no neck. Other: I like a guy who looks positive, it's hard to describe, but someone who doesn't look as if their dogs just died or just plain moody. You can tell by body language and stuff. I'm mostly attracted to men of my own race (British/Irish white), but I often find men of darker complexions attractive too. South Americans, Italians, Spanish. Not being racist but I am rarely ever attracted to Asians/Orientals, I find some black/mixed race men attractive, it depends. These aren't demands/requirements, just mental preferences really, based on men I've been with or found attractive in the past. Personality: I like men who are blunt but tactful with what he thinks or feels, so no sugarcoating but not "brutally honest" to the point he's an twat. I like sarcasm, but not really nitpicky sarcasm. I like confidence but never arrogance, I like a mutual caring relationship, I don't want to become some sort of agony aunt/mother figure, likewise I don't want him to be like a second dad. I find protectiveness hot, but not to the point of where he thinks he can control me or gets angry/suspicious when he sees me talking to a male friend. I also like a man who likes to try different things and do exciting things, not the same old thing week after week. So holidays abroad or something weird like attending a protest, since I take an interest in current affairs/politics. Most importantly I like to keep the spark/chemistry alive. I also much prefer him to be sexually dominant, admittedly.
Snowman219 Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 You're asking for a lot in one person, aren't you. All I ask is that the person I may be interested in is to be respectful. All the physical stuff is shallow and doesn't last for ever, but a personality does. Your brain will age just like your body sadly. 1
VodkaShots Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 You're asking for a lot in one person, aren't you. All I ask is that the person I may be interested in is to be respectful. All the physical stuff is shallow and doesn't last for ever, but a personality does. Physical preferences in a sexual/romantic partner aren't shallow. It's part of being human and part of biology/evolutionary psychology. Everybody seeks out a strong/healthy partner to breed with so they can produce strong/healthy offspring. Admittedly, part of it is nurtured from culture and media, but it's mainly natural. Even young children react to perceived attractiveness, i.e. a young attractive teacher in his/her 20s or 30s at school is more likely to be well liked by her/his students than the teacher who is perceived as being an horrible old hag, or when they're making friends at school. I see a lot of people and have friends who say the PC token lines like "only personality counts", "looks are just a bonus", etc. but in practice they still only go out with people they're attracted to and reject the people they're not. I truly think even you have physical preferences. Looks do fade, yes, but by the time looks fade, the two people who are together have established an emotional/mental connection that keeps them attracted to eachother. You don't have that connection with someone you've just met or don't know well, you only have their looks and initial personality to go by.
Author Necris Posted August 26, 2012 Author Posted August 26, 2012 To sum up the OP: I find the exact stereotypical "hot" girl attractive. Discuss! Verhrzn what do you find attractive in a man? I was just describing what characteristics I personally find attractive in women no need to sound all upset. Also for clarification this thread isn't about requirements but just anything you find attractive basically describe your dream person.
threebyfate Posted August 26, 2012 Posted August 26, 2012 This is about size 6-8 I believe - http://forum.bodybuilding.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=4817493&d=1345942698 You like even bigger than that?That's probably 6 - 8 in average height. Any idea how big and tall TW is? While he's not fat, he's not a skinny runt, running somewhere around 6'4" at around 225. Something tells me that he's going to have much taller preferences for ideal height than your average size man. Strangely enough, women who are taller wear larger sizes than women who are shorter. Crazy...huh?
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