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Hit a huge brick wall with girls and I can't figure out how to climb it

Huevo

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Well, the other night I met this girl and I'm guessing I acted right. I initiated kino and she started initiating back and she started making out with me and ****. Needless to say, I hooked up with her and she thanked me for the night the day afterwards. 4 days later, I ask her to come to my place and I get a I'll let you know later response and she never responds lol. This just baffled me because I escalated and **** and my friends do less than me and the girls are over them and I'm like wtf. This isn't the only time because I always fail with a girl after the day I meet them. I make good first impressions and I can get their numbers easily, but when I wait a few days and try to meet with them again it goes downhill. I'm good looking and muscular, so I'm not ugly. I'm so lost right now.

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Three things come to mind...

 

You should have called her sooner than 4 days later

 

She just wanted a ONS one time

 

Or you didn't really rock her world in bed

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Three things come to mind...

 

You should have called her sooner than 4 days later

 

She just wanted a ONS one time

 

Or you didn't really rock her world in bed

 

Didnt sex her but I contacted her 2 days afterward to keep contact and asked her to come over two dayz after that

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Next time you meet a girl you like, don't try to have sex with her right away. Go out on a few dates and get to know her first. Then she'll know you like her for more than just her looks and will be more likely to want to see you more than just once.

amaysngrace Established Member

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Asking her to come over is a totally different message than taking her out.

 

If a guy just wants you to come over it usually means sex.

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The first thought that comes to mind is that she thinks you only want her for sex. That's the message you send when you invite her to come over to your place instead of inviting her out on a date.

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Didnt sex her but I contacted her 2 days afterward to keep contact and asked her to come over two dayz after that

 

Asking her to come over is a totally different message than taking her out.

 

If a guy just wants you to come over it usually means sex.

 

The first thought that comes to mind is that she thinks you only want her for sex. That's the message you send when you invite her to come over to your place instead of inviting her out on a date.

 

Exactly. Meet a girl. Kiss and grope a little. Is not a relationship.

 

Such an honor for her to be invited over to your place the get laid.

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