Give Him Space?

August 25, 2012

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 and a half months. Due to both of our extremely busy schedules, we see each other every couple of days (which is fine with me) or in between shifts or during breaks. Our relationship up until now is great. He's sweet, affectionate, funny... Or so I thought .

Last night, I called him and he'd seemed agitaited. I told him I'd call him later or he can call me when he was feeling better (at some point, he'd began to take his frustration out on me when i hadn't done anything). While I waited for him to cool off, I'd logged into my Facebook account to pass time. I had a wall post from a cousin and a friend (both males). I simply told both of them I'd missed them and to contact me soon. My boyfriend liked both posts and comments. I found it quite odd and thought not too much of it until he began bashing me on Facebook and Twitter. Its really immature of him. Especially being that he's 21 and I'm 18. I'd haven't and will not respond to any of the posts and tweets.

I called him and asked what the hell his problem was & completely ignored me and said nothing and hung up on me.

Today, after not speaking or texting for a whole 24 hours, lol, he is still saying things on social media about me. One post in particular really hurt my feelings. It said and I quote...

"The longer the situation continues, the more I don't give a f***. F*** her and her feelings. She knows who she is. If the shoe fits, wear it."

I've done nothing at all to this guy. My thoughts were maybe he misses me. But then why would he say all those hurtful things? Maybe those wallpost (which is really stupid and immature to get mad over. Especially when they have no meaning at all).My mind is everywhere and I want to know why he's acting this way. Or should I give him space?