My ex gets really upset from just texting me, and its been 7 months?

[francis88]

So we were together for a little over two years, and broke up because of our families not liking each other, making it a pretty much futurless relationship. (She broke up with me). There has been limited communication between us, and it has been 6 months. I decided to text her to tell her I wanted to call her later on in the week. I was busy and never got around to it, so texted again to tell her sorry I haven't called, and she asked if what I wanted to talk about was bad. I told her no, that it was good and that I wanted to catch up and see how she was. She replied by saying "Why would you want to do that, I don't believe that you care about me enough to want to have a normal conversation and to see how I am", and that "The only reason you would want to talk to me would be to tell me something bad" I was surprised that she thinks I don't care at all. She then said she gets really upset when she talks to me. It's been 6 months of little to no contact, why is she like this still?

[Lisa_Lisa]

She sounds too emotional. Maybe she's paranoid.

[Appleness]

I agree with Bittersweet79. She does sound a bit too emotional but then again, she could have just been having a bad day and you caught her at the wrong time. Personally, I think it's pointless the preempt a call to catch up with the a text telling her that you'll call. Next time, just call whenever you're ready. It's a phone call, not a date. You could do this in your underwear and she wouldn't know. No need to prepare anything. This way you'll deal with a lot less drama and she won't be mad at you before you even dial.

[8mia8]

People move on at a different paces. Just because you are OK doesn't mean she is, regardless of who dumped whom.

 

I'd put the ball in her court and just say that you'd like to talk and for her to contact you when she's ready.

Edited August 25, 2012 by 8mia8

[francis88]

Exactly, its been half a year and I am boggled because she's still so emotional. It's as if she can barely handle having a conversation with me without having her feelings take over.