Desperat Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 hi.. i'm a 22 year old girl from Denmark, i've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and i've know his friend for just as long, i'm in need of help, the relationship between the three of us is, wrong. it has always been sexual, from the first time i met his best friend. my boyfriend (sam) wanted me to try a threesome, and wanted it to be with his best friend (mike) i said no but, which he didn't accept , he kept saying "i know you want to" etc. so i agreed to it and well lets just say i got the feeling that i was as much mikes property as sams. our "relationship" was fun up til then, i've always like mike, hes a very charismatic guy, sweet charming and without doubt my best friend, so easy to talk to, gentle, yet hes the most frustrating person aswell ^^ my boyfriend on the other hand is quite an egoist, but still a fantastic guy, and i DO love him, please understand that. well, sex has always been ok but never really great, but sex with mike, jeez, that's just fantastic. and here coes the hard part, i cheated on my boyfriend with mike, and sam found out, i should've stopped there but, i CANT, neither could he, and please dont think bad of him, hes not that kind of guy, none of us wanted it, yet it kept happening. we tried to stop it, and this summer i moved out, couldnt do it to sam anymore. so mike's been over a couple of times and, since being alone together was quite new, we've gotten to know eachother in a whole other way, and i've really fallen for him. he always made a big deal out of me trusting him, and i did that, i found a side to myself ii didnt know, and he promised to never leave me behind. well i tried to push him away, when i found out how i felt, i could never do that to sam, tho, mike forced me to tell, he wanted to know what was wrong, but when i told him, he said he had to think, he wasnt sure whether we could be friends anymore.. and honestly i dont understand why ? can anyone try to explain ?
TaraMaiden Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 How old are you guys...? Hang on - are you all in your 20's...? Sheesh... quit fooling around, dump Sam, go with Mike. So you lose the friendship. Really - so what? If you're mature enough to screw around together, then be old enough to know that complications like this happen. Get over it.... 1
Titanwolf Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 How old are you guys...? Hang on - are you all in your 20's...? Sheesh... quit fooling around, dump Sam, go with Mike. So you lose the friendship. Really - so what? If you're mature enough to screw around together, then be old enough to know that complications like this happen. Get over it.... Oo you're spicy today, but when you're right, you're right. 1
TaraMaiden Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 Oo you're spicy today, but when you're right, you're right. Oooohyah....
darkmoon Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 date mike, sam set you two up, so he has only himself to blame, you and mike like each other, am happy for you both
Author Desperat Posted August 24, 2012 Author Posted August 24, 2012 you just told me what i already know ^^ but thanks i guess and ... uhm if it was so freakishly easy i wouldnt be here would i..?
Author Desperat Posted August 24, 2012 Author Posted August 24, 2012 oh and mike doesn't want me, and will stop our friendship so i guess he abused me didnt he ^^
TaraMaiden Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 No, you fell for the oldest trick in the book. Use her, phukk her , dump her. So mike dumps you, you cheat on Sam, Sam dumps you too... Charming situation.... Take a lesson here to not let yourself be so easily co-erced into doing something you don't want to do. Move on, forget both of them, spend some time on your own, alone, and consider the type of girl you want to be, and what kind of a reputation you wish to earn.... There is amazing power in the word "no". 1
TaraMaiden Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 you just told me what i already know ^^ but thanks i guess and ... uhm if it was so freakishly easy i wouldnt be here would i..? I hate to tell you but you know what ? It IS "Freakishly easy". Just lay down the law and don't be a pushover. And get rid of these two guys in your life. They're both flaky, and really completely disrespectful... They convince you to have a threesome - then get all up themselves when you oblige them both?? Hypocrites!
darkmoon Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 to explain - these guys are comedians sorry xx
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