salem mark Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 my ex asked me to meet her on trip she is taking to a city near where I live I haven't heard from her in 2 years, she dumped me BTW in her emails she stated how much she missed me and cared about me and said she would even pay for me to visit her. sounds god right? like I have a second chance when i replied back, I told her would think about it (I'm trying to play it cool even though I've always been crazy about her) she then replies back, " I have to be honest , I am dating someone but would still like to see you." WTF? She's been initiating contact/ emails, not me I replied "no worries" havent heard back, what is going on with her????
TaraMaiden Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 Forget about it.... wait until she re-contacts you - if she ever does..... If not - I figure you dodged a drama-bullet.... maybe? 2
Author salem mark Posted August 24, 2012 Author Posted August 24, 2012 Hi tara, Ive seen you on other posts, you seem very astute regarding these crazy situations. Maybe she is just looking for attention/validation?
Tree_Salmon Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 Hi tara, Ive seen you on other posts, you seem very astute regarding these crazy situations. Maybe she is just looking for attention/validation? this is a ticking timebomb. my ex has done it with me recently. It only confuses you. She wants the best of every world. I say do NOT meet up. You'll end up getting hurt. Even if she does want you back, this is not the time or the place. 1
TaraMaiden Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 Hi tara, Ive seen you on other posts, you seem very astute regarding these crazy situations. Maybe she is just looking for attention/validation? To be honest with you, I think she thought maybe she would 're-connect' for old times' sake' - and then possibly thought better of it, and did some back-pedalling. She might have told you about the BF to put you off any possible thoughts of reconciliation - but I'd be curious to know if said BF knows she tried to contact you - that might be another reason she got cold feet....
Author salem mark Posted August 24, 2012 Author Posted August 24, 2012 tara - wow your good!! srong possibilty you may be right, I need to forget her, she keeps resurfacing and all it does is upset and remind me again of the past, someone suggested to tell her unless you become single again Im not interested in communicating with you
AlexfromBoston Posted August 25, 2012 Posted August 25, 2012 Tara nailed it man. Basically, your ex was bored or drunk one night(or maybe had a fight with her current man) and decided to "hit you up" for quick catch up. She did some back-pedaling and decided to terminate contact. If it doesn't bother you too much, stay in loose contact with her...but don't get your hopes up.
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