KatZee Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 OK, so me and my friend J have been friends since high school. I've had a crush on him since 10th grade. It's been 12 years since 10th grade, and we're still in touch. We've never really lost contact throughout the years. There has always been a flirty tension between us and a sexual chemistry... we were/are both clearly interested but the time was just never right. I was always in a relationship, or he was, or I was away at college... throughout it all we've always found our way back to each other to hang out. You could cut the sexual tension between us with a freaking knife. He was living out of state for a few months for work related things but he's back now and we hung out last night... I wound up crashing at his place... we went out for drinks, went back to his apt, talked, listened to music, had a lot of laughs, and then went into his room to watch some comedy, and wound up staying up all night laying face to face on our sides to talk, laugh, etc. He kept getting closer, and closer... he'd playfully tap me on my thigh, or my arm... at one point he wanted to compare arm lengths just so we'd be touching side by side. Around 5AM we finally drifted off to sleep, me in his bed, in his shorts, and I woke up and his arm was around my waist ! Despite all of this we have NEVER hooked up. It's clear he's interested. He's always said I was hot, has always shown the interest... is he waiting for ME to make a move? We've been friends for so long I'd hate to do something and make it super awkward between us... but UGH. I wanted to kiss him so freaking bad last night!!!
Floored Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 Ah, so this is where you went. Moved on up to the dating sub, I'm glad for you Kat! Are you wanting things to move forward with him? He wanted you, no doubt. You saw the signs, and even I'm familiar with the timid don't-want-to-ruin-this-awesome-moment-but-DAMN-she's-fine arm measurement maneuver. He didn't push it though because he's probably having some similar feelings of not wanting to make it weird. You could test the waters. Get in contact with him and let you know you had a great night and that you want to do it again soon. Tell him you just got out of a relationship and you don't want to make things awkward but... Leave it there. See if he fills in the blanks. 1
youngnlove89 Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 OK, so me and my friend J have been friends since high school. I've had a crush on him since 10th grade. It's been 12 years since 10th grade, and we're still in touch. We've never really lost contact throughout the years. There has always been a flirty tension between us and a sexual chemistry... we were/are both clearly interested but the time was just never right. I was always in a relationship, or he was, or I was away at college... throughout it all we've always found our way back to each other to hang out. You could cut the sexual tension between us with a freaking knife. He was living out of state for a few months for work related things but he's back now and we hung out last night... I wound up crashing at his place... we went out for drinks, went back to his apt, talked, listened to music, had a lot of laughs, and then went into his room to watch some comedy, and wound up staying up all night laying face to face on our sides to talk, laugh, etc. He kept getting closer, and closer... he'd playfully tap me on my thigh, or my arm... at one point he wanted to compare arm lengths just so we'd be touching side by side. Around 5AM we finally drifted off to sleep, me in his bed, in his shorts, and I woke up and his arm was around my waist ! Despite all of this we have NEVER hooked up. It's clear he's interested. He's always said I was hot, has always shown the interest... is he waiting for ME to make a move? We've been friends for so long I'd hate to do something and make it super awkward between us... but UGH. I wanted to kiss him so freaking bad last night!!! awww, how stinkin cute! I can't wait to get out of the Breakup section and move towards here! It's clear he likes you, and it's good you are taking it slow and not just jumping into sex. He has good intentions. I can't tell if he is waiting or what, I don't know his personality, but if he is shy then maybe he is a little nervous. Maybe he feels the same way you do, he doesn't want to ruin a friendship if it isn't mutual. But that is a risk I would take. He seems worth it. Keep doing what you are doing because obviously it's working. Maybe you should tell him your feelings, it would be a shocker if he didn't have the same feelings. Maybe you guys are both on the right page now and this can progress into something so special! I have butterflies for you two! so cute! 1
Author KatZee Posted August 24, 2012 Author Posted August 24, 2012 Ah, so this is where you went. Moved on up to the dating sub, I'm glad for you Kat! Are you wanting things to move forward with him? He wanted you, no doubt. You saw the signs, and even I'm familiar with the timid don't-want-to-ruin-this-awesome-moment-but-DAMN-she's-fine arm measurement maneuver. He didn't push it though because he's probably having some similar feelings of not wanting to make it weird. You could test the waters. Get in contact with him and let you know you had a great night and that you want to do it again soon. Tell him you just got out of a relationship and you don't want to make things awkward but... Leave it there. See if he fills in the blanks. :laugh: I've been feeling jittery all day. Could be as a result of last night, or it could be the caffeine or extreme lack of sleep... either way... yes, this is where I've been! The breakup forums make me feel so uneasy and sad now I still like to help out around there on occasion though. OK, so he DOES want me? I've liked him for 12 years... TWELVE YEARS!!!!! the thought of finally... FINALLY just... having it after always going back to him after all this time... ahhhhhhhh. And he knows I came out of a LT relationship about 4 months ago... he's the one that came out with me mere days after it happened just to listen to my crap. He's good people. I don't want to be too aggressive though. Or too needy right off the bat. I wish he would have initiated kissing me or something! ahhhh lmao.
Author KatZee Posted August 24, 2012 Author Posted August 24, 2012 awww, how stinkin cute! I can't wait to get out of the Breakup section and move towards here! It's clear he likes you, and it's good you are taking it slow and not just jumping into sex. He has good intentions. I can't tell if he is waiting or what, I don't know his personality, but if he is shy then maybe he is a little nervous. Maybe he feels the same way you do, he doesn't want to ruin a friendship if it isn't mutual. But that is a risk I would take. He seems worth it. Keep doing what you are doing because obviously it's working. Maybe you should tell him your feelings, it would be a shocker if he didn't have the same feelings. Maybe you guys are both on the right page now and this can progress into something so special! I have butterflies for you two! so cute! Ugh, I just can't believe it's been so long. Even at one point, when it was silent for a bit... "are you asleep over there?" I said no... and he said, "Can you believe we've been friends for 12 years..." I was floating around cloud 9 and couldn't drift off to sleep... and then he said ... you can't fall asleep can you? I can't either... I can't sleep until you do first... that's just how I am... I kept the poor guy up all night lol
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