chrisusarmy2005 Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 Just a short update I'm doing a lot better now after 4 mos of hell, I'm getting back out there,having fun and getting in shape,playing music and just enjoying life.I've decided that I'm happy with who I am and as far as I'm concerned I'm done trying to please people. I'm doing me and being me. Met a few girls who are pretty cool don't want a relationship at the moment so just hanging out. Noone knows what the future holds. I figured she will regret it at a later time and I will not be there to help her out she can fall on her face but anyway I'm happy now and that's how it should be. Now the 2nd part Why do guys take breakups harder then women...
big bear Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 Because women have this groupie thing, where they discuss everything and support each other. Tell me seriously would you like to hear a guy (even your best friend) rant about a girl or just have a beer and discuss about the game or the chick on the next table. Besides, when we break up we usually think it through very less. But women they sit and analyze. So, our impulse kicks us in the guts quite often. And a man crying over a girl looks pathetic (Stereotype & generalization). A woman crying on it is totally different. 1
not-a-drive-by Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 I thought break ups don't discriminate by sex. I'm a woman, and I don't find it any easier than any men who have been dumped here. If it did discriminate by sex, I thought women take breakups harder than men. So many posts here where men get hurt or dumped, and they just find other women to screw until they feel better. A good time to get loose? I guess everyone just copes differently. 1
Author chrisusarmy2005 Posted August 24, 2012 Author Posted August 24, 2012 I agree with both of you, I just feel guys are brought up to be all tough and everything but still. I agree also with breakups are hard, it just seems as if a girl breaks up with a guy usually the girl gets over it a little bit faster. It's like a never ending vortex. Some guys of course are out there to just get laid and stuff. Its just weird. Yes guy friends don't really care and they tell you to move on and stuff. I think its just a little harder on guys. Again this is my opinion and we all know the saying.
Crila16 Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 You're joking. Women think it's the opposite. Women hurt like crazy and we drive our friends nuts, to the point where they don't even want to talk to us. I will tell you one difference btwn men and women when going thru a breakup though. Men hold it in, where women let it out...and let it out....and let it out. We eat icecream, cry to our friends, cry to our families, cry to co-workers...basically anyone that will listen. We have a great support system and we get it all out. Men supress. Men talk about it once to a friend, the friend gives advice...and then you're not allowed to talk about it anymore or you're basically called a chick. You can only pile so much garbage into a garbage can, before the lid comes flying off. Holding emotions in, is very damaging. Men are taught to suck it up and never let them see you sweat...women are taught to let it out.
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