confusedindc Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 (edited) Okay. So, there's this guy at work, he's just a little bit older than me, he's 21, and I am 19. He's been working at this place for the last 3 years, and I just got hired five months ago. At the beginning, we were truly JUST colleagues, he never indicated that he liked me or anything. The past 2 months, he's been dropping HUGE hints that he's into me. (Or what I feel are hints anyway..) First off, he asks me about how me and my boyfriend are doing, I never give any indication that its goin any way but great. I thought he was just makin small talk... but no, he asks all the time. He also tells me that he doesnt think his relationship with his gf will last very long, and that he wouldn't ever marry her. (Who reveals that to a coworker??) And, sometimes when I go on break during work, he's like "Are you going to your bf's house?" When he found out that my boyfriend wanted to propose to me, he was adamant that I not marry him because I'm too young, then he says that I should marry him instead, says he would do anything to impress my parents (as a joke Im assuming lol) Most of the stuff he says, I just laugh it off because I think he's joking... But that's too many coincidences.. My first question would be, do you think he's into me or is he just a friendly guy? Secondly, How do I let him down easy, because I'm already with a great guy. I wanted to let this off my chest because I just can't figure out how someone who HAS a girlfriend (A fact he's never tried to hide), can flirt with a coworker so blatantly and say some of the **** he says to me... Its beyond me. Edited August 24, 2012 by confusedindc
gaius Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 Start joking that you might tell his girlfriend every time he starts joking you should dump your boyfriend. He's not that into you, just trying to break down what you have so he can have 2 instead of 1. Glad you're resisting his toxic presence.
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