Hmm? Posted July 17, 2004 Posted July 17, 2004 I just don't get it. We were together 3 years. Everything was fine. Unfortunately, he worked a lot. So finally, he broke up with me saying I deserve for him to take time and space to figure out what he wants. He also felt it would only be fair to me after three years to either ask for my hand in marriage or break up with me. So, that was that. I drunk dialed him last weekend and he basically told me he fell out of love with me and there was no chance for us ever. He also told me he was happier without me. That's basically all I remember about our conversation. And tonight, a week after the last time I spoke to him, Im just so confused. How does this happen? Do I deserve more of an explanation or do I just let it go? It saddens me cause he was such a big part of my life...and he isn't any longer. How come I didn't see this coming at all?
Blah Toolz Posted July 17, 2004 Posted July 17, 2004 Well... I think from his explanation -- he's telling you that he's not ready to be married yet, and he wants to see what else is out there. Like he said, he had a choice "Either ask you to marry him, or to break up with you." Unfortunately, he wants to experience other things... and it sucks, I know. There may have been warning signs... such as when you both spoke about events that would be taking place in the future, instead of making plans with the both of you, he would only mention himself. He's made it pretty clear that he doesn't want to be with you right now, so hang in there... the best thing to do now is just leave him alone.
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