youngnlove89 Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 Disclaimer: Instead of sending this to my exbf I'm going to post it on here. This can be a fun game. You can respond back as my ex bf or you can respond with a letter that you would want to (but aren't going to) send to your ex. This, in a way, is to get our feelings out, say everything we want to say without literally saying it. Dear ____, So, I was really kind of upset at first (boo-hoo me, right) to find out you were on a dating site again after lying to me about saying you would never be on there again (congratulations if your intentions were to piss me off). Albeit, in a way, it was the icing on the cake to realize I deserve better! Let me give you some advice for your future relationships, as it will come in handy to have a relationship that you proclaim you “are actively looking for.” 1. Don’t go on trips with a group of couples and not have the decency to ask your girlfriend. It’ll hurt her feelings. I mean, that’s a pretty crappy feeling and I’m speaking from experience, take it from me. 2. When holidays come around buy her a little something to show her that you care for her. For f**cks sakes, a card will suffice. But hey, I’m low-maintence, so I can’t tell you what your future girlfriend will prefer, but I’d start saving your extra pennies. 3. On her birthday, don’t lie to her and make up plans saying you’re going to do this or that, if you aren’t going to do anything, I’d get on your knees and pray that she is someone who won’t give a crap. But at least go to the dollar store, find 4 quarters in the crevices of your truck and buy her a damn card. 4. Please be wary of who you text or send pictures too, she might look at your phone like I did, so be cautious to delete any evidence that you’re fooling around and giving attention to some other girl rather than the girl that gives you all the attention and love! She might not be like me who puts up with it and believes your fallacies. But hey, you are pretty charming, so this one you might get away with. 5. Please, please don’t tell her she is 95% the one when you know she isn’t. False hope. It’s an evil thing! 6. Please don’t tell her you love her when having sex if you don’t mean it either, she might do something crazy like believe it! There, I could say more, but I think I’ve made my point: You suck. I hope you can take this and apply it to your next relationship so that it has the chance of lasting longer than sex did and you can find someone who you actually give a sh**t about. Just don’t screw it up. Love, Me. By the way: I like your main picture on the dating site, how cute of you. I’m a good photographer, although the lighting doesn’t do your baldness any justice.
Author youngnlove89 Posted August 24, 2012 Author Posted August 24, 2012 Okay... you ask for it. As your Ex... You were just a piece of ass and I always treated you that way. I didn't give a crap about you or care what you said when we "dated". So why would I give a crap or care what you say now? Finding desperate woman who have no self-esteem, self worth, etc. who will let me treat them like crap and give me all the sex I want, via online dating is easy. It's how I found you. Anyway, I will have 10 new victims by tomorrow evening if you must know. If you haven't figured it out, its over. So stop stalking me and worry about yourself. You think I have issues? So what! You are the idiot who kept coming back for more abuse. While we are on the topic of issues, you are one to talk. You have more issues than National Geographic! Please leave me alone unless you want to throw more sex my way. P.S. - You might want to go get yourself tested. I just had a herpes flair up and I have this unknown discharge coming out of the tip of my penis. I thought this site was supposed to support you and make you feel better. That just made me feel like crap. Thanks.
hinatticus Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 Listen to Gibson, I would but I can't. My situation is seriously different, but I agree 100% with him. If I was a 20 something year old who had my heart broken, he's the man I'd listen to.
headsashed Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 i agree with gibson on this 1. Its harsh but its the cold hard truth. Sometimes we need that cold hard truth before we can start to move on.
Fallenandbroken Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 Alternate reply 8-12 months after break up. I really regret the way I treated you. I let the best girl I had go for one meaningless relationship after the other. I'm so sorry for how I treated you can you forgive me and possibly give me another chance? Your reply should be "kiss my ass" Gibsons reply is the most likely but who knows. Don't wait to find out either way. **** that loser and find someone better x
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