lovehurts5 Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 So I am definitely much better then I was when we first broke up but, i'm not going to lie, i'm def. still hurting. Tomorrow would have been 4 years for us and on Weds. it'll be 3 months since we last saw each other or spoke... I just can't believe tomorrow is going to come and go like any other day when this time last year we were celebrating our relationship.... Just needed to vent.
SadPanda22 Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 I am sorry. I know how you're feeling. A couple of weeks ago marked 4 months since my ex broke up with me...I haven't contacted him since. What would be our 8 year anniversary is coming up in a few weeks....I am definitely not looking forward to that. Sorry that I don't have any advice, I just wanted you to know that you're not alone.
Canadian731 Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 I know it's terribly hard but you have to take your mind off of her. No amount of venting online will help you sadly, you have to realize within yourself that the relationship is over and that girl you once knew and loved has now changed and your paths no longer intertwine. You will find someone who you will be a better match with and on that day you will think "wow if I was still hung up on my ex I could have missed this opportunity!"
Author lovehurts5 Posted August 24, 2012 Author Posted August 24, 2012 My thoughts are definitely getting the best of me today. I'd just like to fast forward to the point where I look back on all this and laugh. I just want to be happy again.
Tree_Salmon Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 My thoughts are definitely getting the best of me today. I'd just like to fast forward to the point where I look back on all this and laugh. I just want to be happy again. You need to go through these days and remember them in the future. Allot of people jump to someone else to "heal" but that only messes you up later. You'll be better. Anniversaries are coming for all of us. Use the good times to move on.
DarlingWallflower Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 You know what? Treat yourself to something fun tomorrow and on wednesday. I know you will feel sad but if you stay home, you'll only be more miserable. Do something neat that will get your mind off of this. I am going through a break up as well but I just reminding myself that it's pointless to feel sad because he probably does not even care and certainly has not tried to reach out. You are better than this and in the end it's the other person's loss. It's normal to be sad but realize that this is the for the best. 2
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