She's into me but doesn't want anything and I have a cruch and can't get over it

[nod111b]

Hello.

 

Here's some back story:

 

So I met this girl about a month ago over my friends (they are family friends with her). She contacted me and said she really likes me and that she had a crush on me around 5 years ago (I can't really recall that we met before but apparently we had). So we started texting each other and I started to like her.

The friends that we met over had few parties in a week and we mostly hang together. We also made out and were not far away from doing it. Still no problems, she even said she was into me.

The next few days I was asking her is she wanted to go for a simple date but she never had the time or something came up.

Some day later that week she texted me that she's not sure if she wants anything serious at that moment but that she really likes me. But then I somehow changed her mind and she even agreed on a date. Next day she called rain check on this date (they apparently had guests at their home).

Then few days later I got another text saying that it's better if we just stay friends. I asked what's the problem and she replied that she doesn't want to rush it with relationships (like before). I then didn't want to bug her anymore and agreed to it.

 

It has been around 2 weeks from then and I still have a crush on her. I think it would have already passed but the problem is that we see each other every day since she now always hanging with our gang of friends (the same ones we met over).

 

And this is bugging me now and I need some advice.

Should I stop hanging with those friends for a some time. (which would probably look weird since we've been hanging out for years)

I was also thinking about texting her and explain the situation and ask what the deal was or tell her to tell me to f*** off or something. So I get some closure.

 

 

Big thanks to those who'll take time to read this and give advice. Much appreciated.

[sid3]

Meet a new girl or two, and I guarantee you'll get over your crush.