steveblack Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 there is bar event that I would 100% be going to next week, but I am not going because she 'might' be there. I just got text yesterday from a mutual friend asking me why I am not going. (I haven't responded). The mutual friend definitely knows what is going on. How should I respond? I kind of want to be honest without saying because she might be there. Want to stay strong. 2 months of NC of a 3 year relationship A little help?
Drseussgrrl Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 If you're not over her - DON'T GO. Seeing her will just set you back and you won't have any fun. Just make up some lame excuse, like you have to bathe your cat. Anything. You can't handle seeing her right now. TRUST ME. 1
hinatticus Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 Be a man just go. Full ignore mode if you have to. Don't let her run your life dude.
Reegs Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 Is she walked in with another guy how would you feel? If there is any other response than "indifferent"...then dont go. Gonna put you in a place where you dont want to be. "why dont you want to go?" "I am sorry, I already have plans that night. Wish I could make it...give everyone my best."
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