is affection necessary 4 a relationship 2 last? opions plz!!! :)

[dramaqueens24]

so my man and i jus broke up. he doesn't kiss on the mouth, hasn't in a year (which he was drunk at the time might i add,) refuses 2 go anywhere with me...our first and only date was 2 years ago almost, no exaggeration... nowhere, not even 2 the corner store 4 coffee. refuses 2 try oral sex on me (tried it before, hated it.) he never told me i was even cute, let alone beautiful, sexy, etc, etc. all of which made me get insecure, jealous and sick of his b.s. he says he's just not an affectionate person. anyone ever run into this crap? and what do you think of mine? oh yah, i also did whatever he asked, going grocery shopping, doing "the deed" 4 him, cleaning his house.

[aFighter]

You did the right thing

This guy was just using you. I'm amazed you tolerated it for that long.

Sounds to me like he wanted it all his own way & that's just selfish and not acknowledging you and your needs.

Congrats on kicking his selfish a$$ to the kerb

[swtbonita]

that isn't a relationship.. its called being a mail-order-bride lol.. you both have to put in 75 % most of the time.. if not neither of you will be satisfied... how could you stay with a guy that does that too you.. don't let anyone use you like that again..

[ntovrhm]

. . . if you don't have affection and caring. . .you don't know what you are missing. Please try o get to the point where you think you deserve it.