macardent Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 So my ex has a new boyfriend now and she'd been trying to advertise him on Facebook or maybe she really just loves him. God knows best. So I am going clubbing this weekend with my buddies. And I know that one of her best friends is coming and she will find out I am there and would definitely pop in. Just to show me that she did better or something. I know she is like that she did it with her ex when she was with me. She is immature and I know she'd say something to my face or just show off. I have no idea how I should/would react. Its been almost 5 months since we broke up. I am just getting over it and going out again. Any help would be appreciated. What should I do? Her new boyfriend is taller than me and she lost a lot of weight and thats about it. Thank You
weallfalldown Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 5 months/......WTF are you even reacting for?....why do you wanna react? MOVE ON!!
Author macardent Posted August 23, 2012 Author Posted August 23, 2012 5 months/......WTF are you even reacting for?....why do you wanna react? MOVE ON!! She left me. She was my first love.
KatZee Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 Don't react like anything. If she does behave that way, it's because she KNOWS she's going to get a reaction from you. That's what she wants. If you give her...... nothing...... that will have a more profound effect than lets say you were to act like a dick, or try to have a dance-off with this kid. I'd say go, have a good time, party with your friends, dance it up and if she shows up, just put on an indifference face. Say hello cordially, shake the dude's hand, say "nice to meet you" then turn around and go back to having a blast. If she sees anger, hate, sadness, attitude.... she wins. 2
Author macardent Posted August 23, 2012 Author Posted August 23, 2012 Don't react like anything. If she does behave that way, it's because she KNOWS she's going to get a reaction from you. That's what she wants. If you give her...... nothing...... that will have a more profound effect than lets say you were to act like a dick, or try to have a dance-off with this kid. I'd say go, have a good time, party with your friends, dance it up and if she shows up, just put on an indifference face. Say hello cordially, shake the dude's hand, say "nice to meet you" then turn around and go back to having a blast. If she sees anger, hate, sadness, attitude.... she wins. YES THANK YOU. No emotions towards any of that. And I should really train my self to feel like that before that night.
YorickBrown Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 So my ex has a new boyfriend now and she'd been trying to advertise him on Facebook or maybe she really just loves him. God knows best. So I am going clubbing this weekend with my buddies. And I know that one of her best friends is coming and she will find out I am there and would definitely pop in. Just to show me that she did better or something. I know she is like that she did it with her ex when she was with me. She is immature and I know she'd say something to my face or just show off. I have no idea how I should/would react. Its been almost 5 months since we broke up. I am just getting over it and going out again. Any help would be appreciated. What should I do? Her new boyfriend is taller than me and she lost a lot of weight and thats about it. Thank You Hmmmmm .....well....whip out your cellphone....that porn video of you and your ex which you took a couple of months before you broke up would sure come in handy just about now ...then prepare to run like crazy....let's hope the current boyfriend is only as tall but doesnt run like Usain Bolt.... PS: What? You just wanted to show your friends how your ex lost weight?
Author macardent Posted August 23, 2012 Author Posted August 23, 2012 Hmmmmm .....well....whip out your cellphone....that porn video of you and your ex which you took a couple of months before you broke up would sure come in handy just about now ...then prepare to run like crazy....let's hope the current boyfriend is only as tall but doesnt run like Usain Bolt.... PS: What? You just wanted to show your friends how your ex lost weight? LOL we didnt make no videos. but no She lost a lot of weight in general. So she is probably super high on self esteem. LOL I wish I made a video or something man..
burningashes Posted August 24, 2012 Posted August 24, 2012 Be calm, and appear nonchalant. Trust me, your heart will be a-flutter and you'll be nervous. If it upsets you, you can call it a night and leave. It's okay to leave if it is making you uncomfortable. Otherwise, strut what you got and have fun. Pay no mind to the ex, and keep yourself busy. Don't let her get a rise out of you! 1
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