TooHonest123 Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 I think this is a pretty inportant question that allows us to further understand who we are in terms of qualities . Feel free to post good reasons why you would date yourself! I am loyal Smart Careing and loving Love pets! Independent ! Considerate Love sushi Enjoy traveling Open to new adventures Have goals I am working on acomplishing my goals I am respectful. I am sexy as hell I only let a woman pay if she gets mad at me for always paying lol I have a loving family I have ambition I live life with responsibility and dedication! Come up with your own list! We are all amazing people...sometimes breakups can damage our ego and confidence...Dont forget that we are all ****ing awesome...in our individual ways! 2
Mint Sauce Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 yesterday, for the first time since the BU 2 months ago, I lost my self confidence (she left for a friend of mine). The possibility appeared in my mind that he was actually a better catch, that I was outclassed. Fortunately, about a minute later I realized that was nonsense. He's inferior in every conceivable way, and my ex is just stupid for dumping me No, I wouldn't date me, but I'm convinced I'm a great catch 1
esteem-jam Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 On a good day - I would hang out with myself - have a drink, go to places, play sports, or just play =) As for date I dont know, I know my flaws.
KatZee Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 Oh hell... if I was a dude... I'd wife myself up in 5 seconds. Girls like me are NOT a dime a dozen... yeah yeah...I got a big head now... ALL THANKS TO THE EX!! Seriously, I had no clue how bad and how low he dragged me down until I've been single from him for almost 4 months now. I can't believe I never saw it...
weallfalldown Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 Oh hell... if I was a dude... I'd wife myself up in 5 seconds. Girls like me are NOT a dime a dozen... yeah yeah...I got a big head now... ALL THANKS TO THE EX!! Seriously, I had no clue how bad and how low he dragged me down until I've been single from him for almost 4 months now. I can't believe I never saw it... we can all say that kat........there are always two sides to a story.....not saying you desrved anything bad......but admit it, we can all pass blame when things **** up.....
KatZee Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 (edited) we can all say that kat........there are always two sides to a story.....not saying you desrved anything bad......but admit it, we can all pass blame when things **** up..... Yeah there are two sides to the story: Me: Supportive, loving, caring, encouraging, generous, self-less, honest, open communication, trustworthy, committed, funny, intelligent, affectionate, always down to try new things, sacrificing of myself, easily able to compromise, always did anything to make him happy to see him smile, thoughtful, admitted my faults, tried to better myself... I can go on and on and on and on. Him: Liar. Cheater. Emotional abuser. Refused to ever acknowledge the parts he played in things going wrong. Allowed his friends to disrespect me. Was so insecure with himself he would criticize me day in and day out. Made me feel like a pile of sh*t about myself. Made me believe there were things wrong with ME. Disrespected my family. Thoughtless. Everything was always about him. I always came second to his job, friends, family, and himself. Yeah, I should have seen the red flags, but that's what happens when you love someone. You tend to overlook the small things until they snowball into one gigantic problem. I'm not saying I'm some saint, I can be snotty, but I think that goes without saying when someone cheats on you and lies right to your face for three years, I'm entitled. I never did, and never would treat anyone the way he treated me. I was NOT the one to drop the ball in this relationship. I know they always say two people play a part in it ending, but honestly, I was the only one ever putting IN the effort to keep the relationship going. Edited August 23, 2012 by KatZee 1
carhill Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 When I was younger I would gnash my teeth, shake my fists, stomp my feet and and exclaim damn well straight I'd date myself. Today, meh, too imperfect. Pass. Interesting how life works.
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