cerebra876324 Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 I've met this great girl, but we are in a LDR. She lives two hours away. We both work during the week and have most weekends available to see each other. We met online and have been communicating for three months and have only seen each other in person 3 times due to her busy work schedule that requires some travel. She always seems to be busy on the weekends with her friends or family and doesn't want to make seeing me a priority, or doesn't include me with her friends. I realize it's early in the relationship, but she tells me on the phone/text/Skype that she really cares for me, sees a future with me, etc. We talk daily, text most of the day, etc. I met her in the city she was working in one time, and then I drove to her house once. She has not visited me yet. I just feel like we're pen pals and she is not ready to make the "in-person" meetings a priority. Oh, and I'm 32 and she's 28 and we both have careers that are demanding from a time standpoint. Am I wrong to think she should be making a little time for me once a week or so since she keeps telling me how she wants a relationship and wants to be with me? It just seems like her words do not match her actions. Any advice?
Emilia Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 I completely agree with you, she should be making you more of a priority, much more. She isn't making the effort to get to know and to spend time with you. I know it's difficult to meet the right person but perhaps you should reconsider whether she is suitable for this long distance thing, 2 hours isn't really that far to be fair.
yongyong Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 maybe her sexual desire is low or being satisfied by other men? why don't you go out and meet other women? you don't have to sit and whine for attention like a baby.
Greznog Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 You are her emotional outlet, the weekend is reserved for men that turn her on. Im not kidding either.
the_Grinch Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 Could she be playing hard to get? I myself have been having an issue and suddenly she seems to be coming around. Crazy, but maybe she's seeing how far and hard you'll push?
veggirl Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 I would tell her "honestly I don't feel like I'm in a relationship with you because of how little I see you. I need more face to face time in a relationship" and see what she says. She should WANT to see you on the weekends.
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