twilkerson59 Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 I told a girl I had feelings for her last friday, and she felt the same. After spilling more beans with each other and finding out that we've both liked each other since the 6th grade (we're in 12th), we shared a very passionate makeout session before taking her home. Since then, I haven't gotten much out of her in the way of conversation. I've tried to small-talk and I've seen her once or twice in school (yesterday was the first day), but she will stop replying to my texts after one or two replies, and she hasn't seemed particularly interested when I've mentioned maybe doing something this weekend. I'm very confident that we both felt the same that night, and the kiss was very enthusiastic from both ends, it couldn't have gone much better. So what gives?
mesmerized Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 Just because she kissed you doesn't mean she finds you attractive or she likes you. She might have been horny or just wanted to kiss a boy. Now she is afraid you will want more and she doesn't want that with you. 2
kaylan Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 ^Id agree with you mesmerized if not for the fact that this girl also said she felt the same way. Im thinking shes just a bit shy and doesnt know how to proceed since shes a youngin. There are only hs seniors.
Author twilkerson59 Posted August 23, 2012 Author Posted August 23, 2012 I just felt up her waist when we kissed. To clear any confusion, she SAID that she felt the same way about me, I wasn't at all guessing. And the kiss was not one-sided at all, I made the first move but we both went at it, and when I stopped for a second because I figured we were done, she gave me one more firm smooch with no tongue before going back into the house to tell our friends she was leaving.
fortyninethousand322 Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 Just because she kissed you doesn't mean she finds you attractive or she likes you. She might have been horny or just wanted to kiss a boy. Now she is afraid you will want more and she doesn't want that with you. Exactly. People think women are more eager for attachment, but it's the opposite: most men are actually WAY more needy than most women. Fact. OP, she just used you for some action. It happens. It usually helps to spend some time thinking it over step by step until you get over it/meet someone else. 1
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