Dblock10 Posted August 22, 2012 Posted August 22, 2012 hey, so my ex moved away and i am unsure on wether i should continue contact with her or not seems like my options are cut from my life, basically remove from fb, or speak to her and try and obtain info as to why she told me she has feelings for me before she left. yet then told me she is happy being single and isnt after anything at the moment. and that when she did see me again it hasnt changed her mind in the sense she would want us to be back together, or just carry on chatting to her now and again about nothing in particular. (she last asked what i was doing with my job then told me a few things about what shes been up to, again not giving much away just small talk, i havent replied) or finally nothing. do nothing. sigh
Floored Posted August 22, 2012 Posted August 22, 2012 she is happy being singleYou answered it yourself. It sucks to let go, especially when she gave you a foothold to put a lot of hope in, but she's gone, both physically and emotionally. Time for you to figure out how to get there too. Cutting is hard, but it's better than keeping that gangrenous connection. It'll only spread and infect the rest of your life.
Author Dblock10 Posted August 22, 2012 Author Posted August 22, 2012 You answered it yourself. It sucks to let go, especially when she gave you a foothold to put a lot of hope in, but she's gone, both physically and emotionally. Time for you to figure out how to get there too. Cutting is hard, but it's better than keeping that gangrenous connection. It'll only spread and infect the rest of your life. yeah your right mate. yeah thats what makes it more the harder to do, because of that hope. plus we caught up and slept together and it felt "right" again. so yeah cutting would probably be better than the dangerous connection. i just hate thinking in terms of 'long run' regretting my actions
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