tcast5000 Posted August 22, 2012 Posted August 22, 2012 I havent contacted my Ex since the breakup 21 days ago. I know that there's not that much I can do besides focusing on myself, love myself. So I am Im taking a weightlifting class, learning piano, been cycling, been going to church, planning on driving again, getting new clothes,learning how to cook, want to volunteer at a homeless shelter. I figure I dont want to contact her till 6 months from now after the emotions of the breakup, after she's gotten to know better her current interest, after the infactuation, after she knows what she has lost with me, when we are two different people. Hopefully these 2 different people will fall in love again, I dont know, I just know I miss my best friend and I want to see her again and I want her to see me again as new. So how am I doing, am I doing the right thing? 1
Am313 Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 Yes, you are doing the right thing. The important thing is how long you dated and close you were to each other. You've got to try to let go and move on, because that really is your only choice.....Easier said than done. NC is good. Don't break it. If she contacts you, keep it short and sweet or just ignore it.
Author tcast5000 Posted August 23, 2012 Author Posted August 23, 2012 We were together for four loving years and we were really close. So yes its been hard to move on. Some days its easy some days I really miss her and some days I just get random memories of our relationship. I hope for reconciliation when I know i shouldn't, just trying my best to move on.
winstonsdreams Posted August 23, 2012 Posted August 23, 2012 You are doing so well, keep it up, keep improving you will be the better person in the end!
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