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OK, my dad has been a major pain with the whole letting go thing, and letting me have my own life with dating. But my boyfriend and i have been together for over 6 months now and that has really been awesome considering he has to put up with so much crap from my dad. i think sometimes most guys would have just left and said forget it.

 

But the real problem is my boyfriend. Mostly because the summer is coming to an end and i am about to finish my last year in high school and my boyfriend is about to start his first year in college. And last night we were talking and he told me he had been talking to his ex-girlfriend on the phone and she told him that she broke up with her boyfriend about 2 weeks ago and that it was because she didnt know what was going to happen while she was away from home. But then he calls me up and says that we might need to break up because he is going to have a whole new life up there and it is only an hour away from home but money is really tight so i dont know if he's actually going to be coming home every weekend or not. And whether or not he's going to meet someone new up there and just think of me as somehthing thats tieing him down or holding him back from a better relationship. Well after about an hour of us talking he said he finally realized that she was just fillng his head with a bunch of crap and that he was wrong for even bringing it up. But the major thing i cant really get over is that i dont think he would have said anything if he hadnt already been thinking it. you know what i'm saying. but i dont know what to think or do. Mainly because its going to be even worse if we go on and he ends up cheating on me, thinking i'm down here and he's up there and i'll never know about it, but what if he's completely committed and nothing happens but we broke up? I just dont know what to do! please help me!!!!!!!!!!!

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Stick it our for a bit until he actually moves. Once he gets into the normal routine of college life then you two should see how the relationship is affected by this. You may need another sit down to figure out the best thing to do.

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