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I read all the heartbreak, the ups and downs, the lack of respect, loyalty and old fashioned values......

 

i think we're entering a new era.......

 

**** relationships, let's just fornicate with each other.......:lmao:

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I read all the heartbreak, the ups and downs, the lack of respect, loyalty and old fashioned values......

 

i think we're entering a new era.......

 

**** relationships, let's just fornicate with each other.......:lmao:

 

People don't know how to be in relationships anymore. Being single is best.

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I read all the heartbreak, the ups and downs, the lack of respect, loyalty and old fashioned values......

 

i think we're entering a new era.......

 

**** relationships, let's just fornicate with each other.......:lmao:

 

Typical.

 

I want a relationship. I want to be with just one person forever. I want to share that connection, chemistry and romance with one person. I want sparks, I want a best friend, I want to open myself up to just one person, I want to be vulnerable to them. I want love, flashing neon lights.

 

If I want it, there has to be someone else out there who wants it too!

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Typical.

 

I want a relationship. I want to be with just one person forever. I want to share that connection, chemistry and romance with one person. I want sparks, I want a best friend, I want to open myself up to just one person, I want to be vulnerable to them. I want love, flashing neon lights.

 

If I want it, there has to be someone else out there who wants it too!

 

lol, you and every other woman........trouble is, you've already had it, like most of us have, but we're all greedy, selfish and all too troublesome to make things last......why the **** are we all on here whining about everything???...we're human, the worst species on the planet...:lmao:

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lol, you and every other woman........trouble is, you've already had it, like most of us have, but we're all greedy, selfish and all too troublesome to make things last......why the **** are we all on here whining about everything???...we're human, the worst species on the planet...:lmao:

 

 

well goodbye then!

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i'm not aiming it at you, just purley pointing out, we all have had great chemistry, real connections........the real deal, but we never seem to hold onto it???????...............

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i'm not aiming it at you, just purley pointing out, we all have had great chemistry, real connections........the real deal, but we never seem to hold onto it???????...............

 

because everyone wants things to be easy for them. let's face it: love isn't enough. but it's not love that walks away. people do.

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exactly............:rolleyes:

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Youngnlove89- sounds like you're just as exhausted with our generation's constant cycle of callousness and self-absorption. What's to be gained from constant heartbreak? Wisdom? I just feel jaded, inclined to avoid the whole thing altogether than put myself into such a vulnerable emotional, financial and physical situation again.

 

Now all I need is a dozen cats and a unicorn sweater and I'll be set.

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i agree totally with this thread. i think times have changed. or maybe im just unlucky ?

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I read all the heartbreak, the ups and downs, the lack of respect, loyalty and old fashioned values......

 

i think we're entering a new era.......

 

**** relationships, let's just fornicate with each other.......:lmao:

 

I'm in my 40s and have had many relationships and have been dumped/heartbroken too many times. Before I met my most recent ex. (she dumped me for her ex. 1 yr. ago) I was happy being single...doing what I wanted when I wanted and not feeling like I needed to please someone or worry about getting hurt again.

 

After being dumped I sooo wanted another serious relationship....I felt like I wasn't complete without someone in my life. Now a year later I'm back to where I was.... happy being single again.

 

Yes it does get lonely sometimes and there are times I'd like to have someone but it's so much easier being single. Call me selfish but I always spent a boat load of money in relationships now I'm spoiling myself spending all that $$$ on myself and having "my time" to do as I please.

 

At this time in my life I'm only interested in casual dating and/or a female friend with benefits.

 

Yeah times have changed.

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We as a society have pretty much lost the ability to relate to each other on any level other than sex and what we can gain from a person.

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well i can say ive had my heart broken 4 times in my life i 43 latest 1 2 half weeks ago why? for sod all really just like the rest not saying all women are the same they are not, but everyone ive had start thinking after time i can get better or the grass is greener, all ive ever done is love them respected them

there is no commitment anymore and the people who suffer are the people on LS

i really don't think i will love the way i loved the girl ive just lost

it really isn't worth it, im not bitter but why give all your love to have it destroyed in the blink of an eye

 

single life for me from now on, i was ok then :-)

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From my experience, and listening to others...when we're single we're reasonably secure with who we are etc......as soon as someone else comes along, you have to deal with their phsycology too.....

 

This is where the problems start, worrying about someone else, what their feeling, thinking etc etc etc, then we all start becoming insecure about the whole thing, and cracks start to show...............weakness..

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lol, you and every other woman........trouble is, you've already had it, like most of us have, but we're all greedy, selfish and all too troublesome to make things last......why the **** are we all on here whining about everything???...we're human, the worst species on the planet...:lmao:

 

Agreed.

 

I compare humans to cockroaches. We spawn needlessly, we've over-populated this earth, we destroy everything we touch, we're disgusting, loads of us live in filth and barely care to keep the planet clean.

 

I'm really not quite sure why humans have ego's the size of the universe. We're nothing but insignificant specks.

 

Hopefully we wipe ourselves out, just like that meteor did the dinosaurs.

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Agreed.

 

I compare humans to cockroaches. We spawn needlessly, we've over-populated this earth, we destroy everything we touch, we're disgusting, loads of us live in filth and barely care to keep the planet clean.

 

I'm really not quite sure why humans have ego's the size of the universe. We're nothing but insignificant specks.

 

Hopefully we wipe ourselves out, just like that meteor did the dinosaurs.

 

 

HAHA! So true! I love this.

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Watch what you say kat.....you'll have the fbi chasing your ass.....:lmao:

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