samali Posted August 22, 2012 Posted August 22, 2012 Hi all, its been 5 years since i got married, i love my wife very much, shes always looking for a reason to fight in the begining i thought it was cuz we did not had any kid, now we have a 8 months old daughter but still there is no change in my wife she still expect me to do all the house work and as well as do my job to support the family....i work 11 hours a day and when i get home she never talk to me cuz shes busy wathcing tv or on the phone ...even for food i have to ask her million times ....she always says let me live my life my way she wants me to give her comfort all the time but when it comes to me she doesnt give a dam...i have been trying to keep this relationship alive but shes always looking for stupid reasons to fight....she thinks am going out with someone...which is not true and she knows that but she just want to make me feel that am wrong and shes right since last 5 days shes at her mothers place and not comming back ....i really dont know what to do am really worried about my daughter cuz shes runing her future...
belkin2 Posted August 22, 2012 Posted August 22, 2012 Sounds rather unhealthy. Is she a stay at home Mom? Is she caring for your daughter properly? I would suggest counseling, but she would have to be willing and from just hearing your first post so far I am doubting that will happen easily. How much have you really tried to sit down and discuss things with her and let her know you are unhappy and need things to change? Let her know you are willing to work on it as well, which means being willing to really look at your actions and input to the relationship.
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