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You can find the background story in my old messages if you want it.

 

After a few days of NC I was feeling so much better, I'd ignored his texts and calls. He very craftily called me from a friend's phone so when their name lit my screen I felt elated. What's even worse, I let myself get into a conversation with him.

 

"I love you" he said, "and I have no problem saying that in front of the world"

"You obviously don't love me enough to be with me"

"We're not going back there are we?"

"You brought it up"

"Please can I see you?"

"Why would I want to watch you and her cuddle up?"

"See me on my own"

 

I have no answer for the last sentence. I said "I'm not feeling very sociable". I'm not sure I even want to see him and he refuses to talk about "us" anyway (and, even if he did, I'm not sure that I want to anymore - there was a time when I so did). This is a man who's essentially left me for someone else and moved her into our house.

 

My day went from good to bad within a matter of minutes. Why do I let someone elses instabilty affect me? Why do I, 20 years his jnr, feel like the mature one so often?

 

The final insult...

 

"Will you email my mum when you get a minute? She's been low recently and would love to hear from you?"

 

What should I say? "Your mother****ing son is incapable of having the same love as me and left me for a girl"?

 

Help? Comments? Please?

Edited by MyHeartTakesOver
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