dumbass101 Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 I'm pretty sure my ex was cheating with a married man. She admitted cheating but wouldn't say with who. Shewas very defensive and admited telling lies about this man. I'm not 100% but near enough...perhaps 90% sure it's him. Now, should I tell his wife? Would you want to know if your partner was a cheat? I could be wrong though andcause a whole lot of problems. I admit this would be motivated by revenge.
Author dumbass101 Posted August 21, 2012 Author Posted August 21, 2012 Btw...we were together 4 years and lived together 3 1/2 years so reason for me to be angry!
CarrieT Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 You are "pretty sure" but don't have proof? Leave it alone... 1
pteromom Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 Yeh, you are only 90% sure, so what if you are wrong? You'd be breaking up someone's marriage for no reason! As far as revenge, you know what they say... living well is the best revenge. Move on and make an awesome life for yourself. Don't worry about what she's doing. 1
Tyler. Posted August 22, 2012 Posted August 22, 2012 Yeh, you are only 90% sure, so what if you are wrong? You'd be breaking up someone's marriage for no reason! As far as revenge, you know what they say... living well is the best revenge. Move on and make an awesome life for yourself. Don't worry about what she's doing. I agree with pteromom, you'll be breaking up a marriage, and you shouldn't do anything unless you're 100% sure. And even after that, it's your call to tell them or not. Just leave it be man, she's clearly not a nice girl, so remove her and anything of hers from your life, move on.
Author dumbass101 Posted August 22, 2012 Author Posted August 22, 2012 Agreed! It was a moment of anger that had me posting it. It's not just a hunch about this guy.....I'm very, very certain due to her behavior about my questioning her about him. Anyway.....best try look after my own recovery rather than dwell on her.
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