SoulSearcher22 Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 I was the victim of a rebound relationship. We only were "together" for a few months..about 4. Well, literally without telling me, she went back to her ex of 3 years about a month ago. I've maintained no contact for the last month. It was hard at first, but now I hardley think about contacting her, unless I'm drunk, then I really have to force myself to not angry drunk text her. I still think about her some here and there, but it never gets bad anymore. Sometimes I may get a little down for a few minutes when I think about all the things she said about us and our future and the things she wanted to do with me. My question is, am I good now or will there be spurts in a few weeks where I may get really upset again? I don't believe I can get that mad anymore.
BooBoo1982 Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 Only time will tell, one day you will wake up and realise you haven't thought if her in weeks.
Car10e Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 I read somewhere that the longer the relationship, the longer it takes to get over. 4 months compared to her 3 year relationship is pretty short. I'm just curious, how long after her breakup with her ex did you and her start dating? And did she dump him or was she dumped?
Author SoulSearcher22 Posted August 21, 2012 Author Posted August 21, 2012 Not sure who dumped who but we started dating 3 months later. Got very involved really quick. Very awesom chick.
Car10e Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 Getting involved quickly is a definite sign of a rebound relationship. Although, some people are able to get over someone quicker, so maybe she didn't intend for you to be a rebound. I would say continue no contact, because you would just be getting in the way of her relationship now and that might make her mad. As for how your feeling, its a roller coaster of emotions. You will have your ups and downs. One day you may feel like you don't need her, and the next you will miss her. It sucks, but you just have to be patient and let time run its course.
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