Aigis Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 I met this girl online. Twice.. once a week in person, the second time before we left to go home from the station i asked her if she wanted to meet the next week as well but she said she doesn't know her plans, i just said ok... i've never gotten that sort of reply before even from a normal friend so it felt strange to me. I don't know how to react to that do i contact her later in the week? it was on a sunday night, is she playing hard to get? to meet her the second time i just texted her and asked and she was fine with that. I don't know if i should be doing the same thing. I have a movie in mind i want to go and watch but not alone I kind of like her and i want to go with her.
BellaMarieOC Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 The only reason I would reply with "I don't know my plans yet" is if I wasn't sure if I wanted to make solid plans with someone I wasn't sure about. What if something better came along? So you say I'm not sure, that way you don't have to flat out say no and hurt that persons feelings. I'm sorry if that sounded harsh, but it's probably the truth. I would move on from her and make plans with someone who is willing to schedule you into their busy lives.
Author Aigis Posted August 22, 2012 Author Posted August 22, 2012 tell her you should go out to do something funny. IF she asks what specifically tell her, it is a surprise she will find out at the place. Well... i kind of did that the second time i met her when i texted her i wasn't being specific on what we were going to do. I just told her we are going to "meet at this station" and she just agreed on that. if someone were to ask me to do something on a later day i'd just say oh maybe this day, or this day i'm not sure but i will contact you later etc etc. but not just say blunt out i don't know my plans.. it makes me feel like uhh.. The movie i have planned is something i really like! that is just about to hit the theatres on the 25th in Japan. I would move on from her and make plans with someone who is willing to schedule you into their busy lives. That is a pretty hard thing to do D:
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