mitch conner Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 So I've been taking classes with this lady for more than 3 months, I like her and am trying to get to know her better. Last week she gave me a bad email address, she told me to use it to send her notes that I've typed. The email address she gave me doesn't exist. So I asked her about it, she told me that she couldn't remember what her email is, and gave me her cell number. She then asked me to go hang out with her at a local bar right after class, and I had plans so I told her I would just call her later. And I did but the number she gave me isn't really her number, like the email address it doesn't exist. I don't know anyone who can't remember their own email address and #. I assume by her actions that she really dosen't want anything to do with me, but then she approaches me and flirts all day? I'm still a million miles away from asking her out on a date, I really just wanted to get to know her better, but this whole situation has just made things really awkward for me. I ignored her today because I have no clue what her intentions are. I have no intentions on pursuing this any further but I'd like to know her motivation for giving me false contact info, all the while acting interested. So if you have any ideas I'd like to hear them.
pteromom Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Her actions say she is interested in you -at least as friends. I would say "Hey the number you gave me is the wrong number." See what she says. Maybe she really did get both wrong. After all, she sees you all the time, so it isn't like you are a guy at the bar she could send away with a wrong number. It doesn't make much sense to give you wrong contact info on purpose when she sees you all the time.
TaraMaiden Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 she is what I would term as the female equivalent of a total jerk. Ignore her. Play it cool, don't talk to her, and if she talks to you, respond in monosyllabic replies. she's being a bitch-tease, and yanking your chain. she's having fun messing with you, and pretending innocence. Give me a break.... email? Wrong? Unlikely. Mobile phone number? Wrong? Impossible. Just kick her to the kerb and play it completely cool. A1 Top-of-the-Class prat....
Author mitch conner Posted August 21, 2012 Author Posted August 21, 2012 Your probably right, so I'll take your advice on how I deal with it. The first thing that came to mind with this situation is that either she's married, or in a relationship and hiding it. Like the other man is at home and uses the same cell phone and email account. I've dealt with that before and there is something unnerving about dating someone, who's trying to land in another relationship before they end the current one. I have this issue where I end up attracted the exact same personality type with the same problems just in another body, and I never see it coming. It's why I literally dropped out of the dating scene for the last decade. Don't particularly like being lonely but I'll take it over being in a bad relationship. 1
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