digon1631 Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Hey guys, when should no contact be broken? I heard it was 3-4 weeks. But my question is, should I not contact her at all unless she contacts me saying i made a mistake or can we try again? Which one is better?
coltsfan1 Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 If you are the dumpee then wait till they contact you!!! If you are the dumper and would like a second chance then you have to go to them. But be prepared to walk a mile over hot coals if you did something stupid or very bad. Which are you dumpee or dumper?
Author digon1631 Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 dumpee. she has contacted me everyday and i have been in NC for 1.5 weeks. I still have not responded to her
Matt145 Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 dumpee. she has contacted me everyday and i have been in NC for 1.5 weeks. I still have not responded to her The day she texts you saying something along the lines of " I miss you so much i want you back i made a big mistake im such a ******* " Then maybe consider replying but if its just pointless stuff then just ignore her. Dont ever contact back if your the dumpee unless a relationship is involved or if your 100% over them. Trust me i learned the hard way i broke everytime my ex texted and called me. Your a strong guy for blanking your ex respect to you. Keep it up;)
Author digon1631 Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 Yeah. It has all been meaningless stuff or just missed calls with no messages. She is seeing someone right now, well basically hooking up with him, and I don't want anything to do with that or her. My mindset right now is moving on but sometimes i do miss her. we were together for 3.5 years and she basically rebounded after two weeks of being broken up. So I shall keep up no contact unless she says something meaningful. that makes the most sense, well at least i think it does
Author digon1631 Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 I also read somewhere to be out of your ex's life while she is on the rebound and not contact her. Is this a true statement?
Matt145 Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Yeah. It has all been meaningless stuff or just missed calls with no messages. She is seeing someone right now, well basically hooking up with him, and I don't want anything to do with that or her. My mindset right now is moving on but sometimes i do miss her. we were together for 3.5 years and she basically rebounded after two weeks of being broken up. So I shall keep up no contact unless she says something meaningful. that makes the most sense, well at least i think it does Exacly if she really wanted you back she would of made it clear to you by now and plus shes hooking up with someone already shes not even worth it. Its just breadcrumbs she wants to see if she still has you wrapped around her fingers and she doesnt and this will damage her ego big time your doing good. Just keep NC, i didnt and i regret it now dont make the mistakes i did by replying to her trust me unless obv course shes literally begging you to get back together;). You dont want nothing to do with her if shes rebounding.
TaraMaiden Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Please read both links in my signature, in their order. everything you want to ever know - is held within those two bits of advice. They're worth their weight in gold...
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