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I feel like I should be hurt, but I'm not.... is that bad?


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So When this happened my boyfriend and I had only been dating for about two months. we had been friends for awhile, but had never really known a bunch about each other, so I suggested that we each write down 20 questions that the other person would have to answer. One of the questions that we both put down was 'What's one thing you'd change about me?'

and he answered with nothing, but, being the untrusting person I am, I HAD to push it, until he was like, well there is something, but it's not really important. after more prodding, he had admitted that he found me a bit 'marshmallowy'. at the time, it hurt me quite a bit, I wasn't comfortable with him touching me for awhile, even after he tried to reassure me by saying that it wasn't a big deal and that it didn't bother him. he didn't have anything to say after i said "but you'd still change it about me?" he was just silent. a few weeks later though, I got over it, and even started a weight loss regime. I havent lost a bunch though, and my boyfriend and i have gotten more intimate. recently he coaxed me into removing my shirt while we were making out. What I'm trying to say, is that I don't know if he still feels that way and it's just really bothering me. we are both 15 by the way, he turns 16 in september and I'm more experianced sexually than him...

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