both emotional addicted to each other, but it seems like something is missing...

[truffelo]

Hello,

I'll try to write my situation as brief as possible...

 

I(25) know this woman(29) for maybe 6 years. It always clicked but nothing more.

A month ago we started to hang out a lot together and had some long intense nights.

If we weren't together we texted all day ( i don't think there has been a day the last 2-3 weeks where we didn't sent like 200 messages a day)

 

We both feel like we have the time of our life. All her friends tell they haven't seen her this happy EVER... She also talks a lot about me etc...

Like in typical love story's, I started to have these feelings for her.

 

She says she feels something very special and uses words like "exceptional" etc but that she doesn't feel the "magic".

She tells there is nothing she wants more than to be in love with me, but she thinks she isn't. She says that there's is to less physical attraction...

 

Okay,

But sometimes there is!

like last week, she hugged me quite intense for hours.

and this friday she started to kiss me ( pretty intense and quite long) multiple times

 

We talk about it a lot, probably too much. But somehow that's who we are...

 

I know I'm pretty shy to open myself physical to women if I'm not very sure about the intensions of the other person (woman).

 

Probably we're seeing and hearing each other too much?(we're "connected" almost 24/24).

 

This night (4 am !!!) I got a superlong mail from her. Telling again how happy I make her and that there was nothing in the world she would rather have, than have that special feeling for me...

 

Is it possible she doesn't feel the spark because she's too focussed?

Is that something that can grow?

Do I have to try something romantic?

[truffelo]

no reply?

 

i would love to hear people who have had this experience...