russian2 Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 So I have not had a girlfriend for just over a year now. Have been dating since then but no one that has struck me in terms of spark. That is, until last week. I signed up on a dating site and found a pretty attractive girl on there that interested me. We hit it off and started texting and eventually went on our first date for drinks and playing pool. We both found out that we are good friends with the same person, which made her more comfortable about meeting someone from online in person. We drank and played pool for about three hours and after that I hugged her and we went on our way. I texted her the next morning that I had a great time and would definitely like to see her again. She replied with a "I had a lot of fun. Let me know when you are free this week and we will do something!" So we set up a bowling date for this week. I asked my friend about her and she said that this girl is a great girl and is very independent. This is not something I am used to because all of the ones that I have been on dates with in the past year have been pretty dependent. I guess it is making me want to approach her differently. There was no kino on the first date from her other than the hug when I first met her and the hug when I left, but I definitely know she is interested in my because we are going out on another date and she texted my friend that I am a great guy and she wants to see where this goes, but what is confusing me is when should i go for the kiss. It will be the second time I am meeting/going out with this girl, and she is not like any of the other girls I have been out with *in terms of kissing on a first/second date*, so I am trying to figure out what date # would be good in going in for the kiss because I do not want to ruin it by doing it too early. Any advice here?
TaraMaiden Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Don't hurry it.... try to introduce the "I really like you a lot, and would love top see where this goes...." line somewhere....the opportunity will present itself. Watch her body language. the way she looks at you, and if she ever tilts her head...in a 'particular' way..... Relax. There is no race, no competition.... be yourself....
Author russian2 Posted August 22, 2012 Author Posted August 22, 2012 Don't hurry it.... try to introduce the "I really like you a lot, and would love top see where this goes...." line somewhere....the opportunity will present itself. Watch her body language. the way she looks at you, and if she ever tilts her head...in a 'particular' way..... Relax. There is no race, no competition.... be yourself.... went on our second date tonight. bowling and then ice cream. at bowling we were high fiving whenever we made a good shot and at the ice cream place she sat next to me instead of across. told her i wanted to see her again and she said definitely and to text her later this week to set something up with her.
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