madjac74 Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 i'm 5 foot 7 and i get caled short. still i convinc them to get to the sack with me but 5 foot 3 and uder are best for the best sex. with so many girls i keep em short now. You are short!
madjac74 Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 your fat I weigh 170 pounds.."you're" <---note the spelling ...silly
oaks Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 To keep his ego intact long term. Over time, if you keep hearing rejection again and again and again, and you do not have amazing internal strength, you may blow up on her. It's better to come up with something to say that you are a gracious guy, and not show insecurity. It's weird, but it works. Are you really suggesting that in order to feel good about themselves, short people need to manipulate how other people think? That's effed up. And sad.
Pyro Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Why does he have to say anything, let alone something with the intention of making her think a certain way? She's not interested... Walk away, don't play games. she didn't even say it to his face. She said it to a mutual friend who passed it on to him. Now if she did say it to his face then he should have told her that its her loss while smiling and walk away. I don't see anything wrong with that.
jcrew11 Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Even short guys with gregarious outgoing personalities have better luck with women. I suppose the trick is to "act" like a bigger guy by having a "large personality"
silicone Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 There is no right and wrong way of dealing with this. I've got three years of dating failures to back behind me. I'm very short, considered to be undateable by a lot of women. I had very little success with girls. It hurt like hell because no one wanted to appreciate me. I wasn't bitter, but I am bitter now. Doesn't mean that I show that I'm bitter, I've just internalised everything, which is arguable the worst thing anyone can do. What I do, however, is to maintain doing what I do, unfazed by those around me. Oh, and I'm shorter than all of the heights mentioned in this thread.
FitChick Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Ill try to find this old study I read. Basically women, no matter their height, prefer a guy almost half a foot taller than them.... I like men two to four inches taller and I am 5'8". Over that and I get a stiff neck looking up at them. Kissing is awkward as well.
Author O'farrell Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 They are supposed to be used to emphasize what they HAVE. A big difference Thats hilarious. 2
Imported Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 no don't, seriously. it will just make you look insecure. embrace your height, everyone has a disadvantage I don't have any height enhancing shoes that I specifically bought for that reason, but some of my boots do add height. Besides padding their bra and using "push up" bras, women also wear heels that usually go well beyond 2"s. I see nothing wrong with a guy wearing shoes that gets him a little taller and don't think it says anything about him to women that are not judgemental little bitches. I am 5'11" barefoot and am pretty happy with my height although I never date women that are 5'10" and above. I don't care how attractive they may look otherwise.
Imported Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 There is actually, amusingly enough, more reason for men to wear beauty (what the mass of women thinks is beautiful) enhancing things like toupees, stuffing socks in under and shoes that add 4 inches of height than there is the reverse. Just wanted to point out many women are cock gazers and maintaining a chubby plus wearing pants that shows your cocks outline will arouse them. I think it just gets them in the right frame of mind and lets them know what to expect. You'll probably need to be otherwise attractive as well. I use to think it was a joke.....but than realize there are slutty women out there as well as just plain horney women and they know what they want.....cock.
Kofybean Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 ...There is actually, amusingly enough, more reason for men to wear beauty (what the mass of women thinks is beautiful) enhancing things like toupees, stuffing socks in underwear and shoes that add 4 inches of height than there is the reverse. wtf!? Not sure if joking.
lovejoy41 Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 Don't let that bother you O'farrell. There are good women that are looking for other things in a man outside of his height. My ex was 5'6 and I'm 5'5. I overlooked his height because first of all I learned to bend some of the things on my list of standards and height was one of them. He swept me off of my feet with his intelligence, kindness, charm, and good looks. Plus he knew how to talk and carry on good conversation. So all of those things overshadowed his height. I loved him for who he was, not for his height. What I didn't know was that I was I having my first encounter with a narcissistic man. If only I'd knew that he would break my heart 5 years later, I would've never met up with him.
mesmerized Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 It's perfectly natural for women to be aroused by a man's penis. Women are not that different from men at the end of the day, even if they tell you otherwise. Women will swear up and down that penises are ugly, but if they see a guy whose alright looking with a stiffy they'll get aroused themselves (for obvious reasons). Look at the subtle cues men get aroused by that aren't always sexual, like hard nipples or camel toe, so why wouldn't women get all moist when they see an overt and powerful sign of sexual arousal like a man who is erect? Women who say penises are universally ugly may very well think so (what do they expect, to put make up and a tiara on it? ), but it doesn't mean it doesn't get them in the mood when they see one. If you think about it, vaginas are not exactly beautiful, they are holes that bleed and get snot everywhere, yet when a man sees one he becomes sexually aroused as well. You can't fight mother nature, even if its will is not exactly pretty. I've never met a woman who says penises are ugly, not that I can remember anyway. I think a lot of women think vaginas are ugly.
Els Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 Why do women wear heels? Because they are so comfy? And why does wearing a pair of dress boots make you insecure. I think it gives you an added bit of confidence like any piece of nice clothing or jewelry Agreed; wearing heeled boots personally wouldn't be my choice piece of advice, but I think it's a double standard to call a man who wears heeled boots to add to his height 'insecure', whereas a woman who wears a good bra to add to her cleavage or makeup to refine her features is 'taking care of her appearance'. If one is insecure, surely the other must be too - there are no two ways around it. 3
Imported Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 I've never met a woman who says penises are ugly, not that I can remember anyway. I think a lot of women think vaginas are ugly. "What girl doesn't like a nice cock in front of their face?" I heard that same phrase from at least 4 different girls from various conversations. Always makes me laugh And vaginas can be very cunilingus arousing gorgeous like I'll penetrate with my nose because I am trying so hard to get my tongue in there lol
rocketman122 Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 I got called short today! So? I got called tall by many woman..we all have our problems..
Janesays Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 Dude, I'm only 5 foot. I've never met a man I'd consider 'short.'
silicone Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 Dude, I'm only 5 foot. I've never met a man I'd consider 'short.' Out of interest, do you consider a man to be shorter than the average or shorter than you, to be short?
Janesays Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 Out of interest, do you consider a man to be shorter than the average or shorter than you, to be short? EVERYONE looks tall to me. I've never met a man under 5 foot tall, so I've never met a 'short' man.
silicone Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 EVERYONE looks tall to me. I've never met a man under 5 foot tall, so I've never met a 'short' man. What's the shortest guy you've met?
Janesays Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 What's the shortest guy you've met? Errr, I don't know. I couldn't tell you the difference between 5'5 and 5'10. I only notice when someone is PARTICULARLY tall. I have had guy friends complain that they thought they were too short. Seems silly, they looked tall enough to me!
silicone Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 Errr, I don't know. I couldn't tell you the difference between 5'5 and 5'10. I only notice when someone is PARTICULARLY tall. I have had guy friends complain that they thought they were too short. Seems silly, they looked tall enough to me! I've only met one person shorter than me
Failboy Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 From my experience, the women who'd fit me perfectly height-wise are turned off the most by short men. My ex was almost 5' 10'' and was okay with it. Not that she liked it, we both knew we looked ridiculous together, but it is what it is. With women about 0-2 inches shorter than me, they often totally overlook men who are below 6 feet. For some odd reason, they really love it to be unable to kiss while standing without heels. I can perfectly understand women who want men who are taller than them. Weird thing is, though, I sometimes feel like I have better chances of non-rejection when trying out just those women. Girls around 5'5'' tend to love 6'3'' guys.
Author O'farrell Posted August 21, 2012 Author Posted August 21, 2012 From my experience, the women who'd fit me perfectly height-wise are turned off the most by short men. My ex was almost 5' 10'' and was okay with it. Not that she liked it, we both knew we looked ridiculous together, but it is what it is. With women about 0-2 inches shorter than me, they often totally overlook men who are below 6 feet. For some odd reason, they really love it to be unable to kiss while standing without heels. I can perfectly understand women who want men who are taller than them. Weird thing is, though, I sometimes feel like I have better chances of non-rejection when trying out just those women. Girls around 5'5'' tend to love 6'3'' guys. your height?
Failboy Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 your height? 5'6''. Pretty much a twilight height for men. 5'4'' or so for a healthy white man is pretty much considered handicap status. 5'7'' or 5'8'' is short, but not obscenely short, meaning they are still considered full human beings. 5'6'' is pretty much in between those 2.. I don't mean to pick on you, but I hear this a lot. "I would/wouldn't do it because when I kiss him I want to look up/stand on the tip of my toes" , I have to say that is an incredibly stupid criteria for a relationship. Why do people have to look like some cheesy Hallmark card... But I agree that the shorter the girl, the more likely she only dates very tall men. Not just that but shorter women are also very aggressive in pursuing tall guys i've noticed. Not surprising in the least, our society seems to be fueled by insecurity, it's done so they can sell you junk. Most 5'1 women would reject a 5'6 guy who has the perfect compatibility with her, just because of his height, it happens every day. Most tall women seem to pursue tall men as well, although not as drastically or aggressively as short girls. What I find funny about tall girls though is from what I've seen, a lot of them only have "being tall" as their criteria in a mate, kind of like a guy whose only standard for a woman is "not fat" That is why sometimes you'll see a woman that is far better looking with a dead-ringer for Ethan Suplee (and guys confuse this for women not caring about looks) here and there, she gave up on finding prince charming and simply settled for a guy whose tall In a sense I guess women are not that picky, it just seems like it to us guys who are not over 6'0. The criteria of most men who will take anything is "don't be fat", the criteria of most women is "just be tall". Yeah. I guess part of the reason why relatively tall women don't overlook shorter men is because all the handsome men taller than them are already aggressively persued by hot short girls. I'm not mad, they are entitled to persue who they like. I just don't get what so bad about being able to stand really close to someone and look him/her deeply into the eyes and such. I really like it, such a predicament women prefer to torture their necks.
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