O'farrell Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad: Self esteem hurt. She said I was cute but I was too short for her shes 5'5!
Pyro Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Next! Much better quality women out there. Just curious, what is your height?
Author O'farrell Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 Next! Much better quality women out there. Just curious, what is your height? Whats too short? Please honest opinion.
Pyro Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Whats too short? Please honest opinion. answer me first
kaylan Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Under 5'9 for a man is usually considered short. 5'8 is still average enough..though on the short end of average....but once you fall under that, people will outright notice you as short. Im 5'9 and havent ever really had anyone refer to me as short. Though I have had guy friends who are only an inch or two shorter than me get called short. It might also have to do with stature and body composition. If you look more long armed and lean, you wont appear as short.
somedude81 Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Eh, yeah you're short. And I'm 5'6 so I know what it's like.
brahmabull117 Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 damn that sucks dude Just gotta keep grinding away. I can't keep believe a 5'5 girl would say a guy 2 inches taller than her is too short
Pyro Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Whats up homeslice. The sky I am 5'7...... You are fine. I am 5'8 and I was rejected numerous times due to my height. The difference between you and I is that I never let it get to me. Try it. 8
GirlontheLam Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Ok I am 5'4" I also think under 5'9" is short. Too short is shorter than me.
Pyro Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Eh, yeah you're short.. O'farrell please do NOT listen to this. For some people it is their piss poor attitude that is keeping them from women. 6
kaylan Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Ill try to find this old study I read. Basically women, no matter their height, prefer a guy almost half a foot taller than them...same thing for men but going the other way around. In my experience women want guy at least a few inches taller than him, or to at least appear to be average in height when compared to other guys. Thems the breaks, but just keep truckin. Highlight your attributes and the height thing wont matter.
soccerrprp Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad: Self esteem hurt. She said I was cute but I was too short for her shes 5'5! Move on! Im short too, but dont let thst stop me. I just keep looking for the ladies that are as or shorter myself. Many available! Many short ladies out there that just wants someone at least their height. Move on!
MrCastle Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Should have said "Eh, I would've ended up breaking your heart anyway" 1
ptp Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Whats too short? Please honest opinion. Technically, in the US anything under 5'9", but I am sure it varies with whoever you ask. I don't know if it is because of where I live, but I see plenty of very short women and they are with "shorter" guys.
somedude81 Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 O'farrell please do NOT listen to this. For some people it is their piss poor attitude that is keeping them from women. Yeah, because it's an attitude that defines somebodies height Average height in the US is 5'9-5'10. That's what most women here expect. Anybody under that is short. No way to escape it.
mesmerized Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 At least you didn't hear "your penis is the smallest I've ever had". My friend recently told that to a guy who was very mean to her.
Author O'farrell Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 What pisses me off is that she was hot Back to ****ing drunken bar sluts again next week
MrCastle Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 What pisses me off is that she was hot Back to ****ing drunken bar sluts again next week That's the spirit 2
Pyro Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Yeah, because it's an attitude that defines somebodies height Average height in the US is 5'9-5'10. That's what most women here expect. Anybody under that is short. No way to escape it. You are a lost cause when it comes to giving advice. O'farrell while you may be under what the US considers average that doesn't mean that you are doomed. Plenty of us below average guys have succeeded with dating. Letting it get you down and not doing anything to make it better will make things worse for you. 4
Author O'farrell Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 You are a lost cause when it comes to giving advice. O'farrell while you may be under what the US considers average that doesn't mean that you are doomed. Plenty of us below average guys have succeeded with dating. Letting it get you down and not doing anything to make it better will make things worse for you. How can i make my height better?
Pyro Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 How can i make my height better? Referring to your self esteem. Accept your height and move on.
Author O'farrell Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 Referring to your self esteem. Accept your height and move on. Im not even mad man I never actually get mad. Maybe if I was a 22 year old virgin and this was a constant reason given id be down on it but this can't be farther than the truth. Im just depressed about never having an emotional connection with a girl because I can't seem to get a sober girl. Maybe im just cut out for the bar
Pyro Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Im not even mad man I never actually get mad. Maybe if I was a 22 year old virgin and this was a constant reason given id be down on it but this can't be farther than the truth. Im just depressed about never having an emotional connection with a girl because I can't seem to get a sober girl. Maybe im just cut out for the bar cut back on the bar scene then. Plenty of other places to meet women.
Author O'farrell Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 cut back on the bar scene then. Plenty of other places to meet women. I don't know where to look. I go to a starbucks and everyone seems to be a hipster or just different than me. I go out to eat and everyone is with friends. I go to a club and most of the time people just want to have fun dancing. (club is my 2nd choice) I go to the bar and they go as far as to approach me. Even taller girls do this to me.
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