youngskywalker Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 My g/f sent me a text tonight and said one of her friends told her some things that caused her to look at our relationship differently. Thus, she needs some time to think it out and will call me tomorrow. She is always telling me how much she loves and misses me and wants to get married. Now this. It's not completely out of the blue because we have had our struggles but so does everyone. Most of our issues are due to the fact we are long distance. It bothers me a little that someone else can just infiltrate our relationship with their opinions. She's done this to me before. "well so and so said we should do this or that". It's like her friends perspective are truth and mine is just an opinion. So I don't know. Guess I'm just getting myself ready to get dumped. This is premature because I don't know what it's all about and she's randomly putting me on the hook and making me suffer. Is that fair?
Author youngskywalker Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 Thanks man. Looks like I'll be moving to the breaking up forum soon. Women are so fickle. Last week she wants to get married and now she most likely wants to break up just because of some other friend. I question her stability cause of all this, amount other reasons
Balzac Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 ALWAYs best to carry your balls back home than her have them in her pocket. There is a reason girls don't have balls.
Author youngskywalker Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 Sometimes in life you will never know the reason. There maybe another guy involved. Here is some advice. When she breaks up with you, say "I couldnt agree more and I feel the same way". That will throw her off. Then go no contact with you and keep her wondering. Her mind games will now be shut down. The more you ask for an explanation and beg and cry the more you will turn her off. The key to getting through this with your dignity and balls intact is acting indifferent, like you agree with her. I know its gonna hurt but use this forum to vent your emotions. I couldn't agree with you more. I've been through a few really tuff break-ups in the past. I have learned the hard way what to do and what not to do. It's best to immediately move on. If it's meant to be she will come back, and if not then at least you have your sanity to bring with you on the journey to find the next love. Peace.
Woggle Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Dump her before she dumps you. Why would you even want to be with somebody where a conversation with a friend can put your entire relationship in jeopardy? 1
mortensorchid Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 SOunds like a bad sign. I hope things are going to be ok for you.
Author youngskywalker Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 What's difficult is to know if you should let it all go or not. Fights and incompatibilities happen all the time in relationships. You just work them out like we have many times in the past. When is it wise to part ways because you are not right for each other versus working it out and not letting the one go that you love? That is the million dollar question. I guess the answer is; if one person wants out of the relationship then it's done. So if she wants to break up then I'll agree and let her go, brush the dust off my feet and look for someone more right for me.
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