KansasChica Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 Things were so good for most of the 9 months we were together until he devalued me and dropped me from his life. He broke up with me and never looked back. 6 months later, he popped back up again, we slept together once, he told me he missed me, still loved me, but still wanted to date others. Now he's disappeared again. 8 months after the breakup, I know it's over. Really over. He doesn't want to talk to me, see me, want me in his life. I was his first serious girlfriend; the first girl he told he loved. Now, he says that when mutual friends bring up my name, he tells them he doesn't want to hear about me or how I am. I get it... he wants to move on. Why do I still pine for him and miss him every day? I feel this dull ache in my chest. I know he'll never reach out. I know this, but why can't I let him go and move on? He was the first guy that I really saw myself with for long-term. The ending was so abrupt- I didn't see it coming at all; but I let him go and never begged him to come back to me. Maybe I should have.
oracle Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 Its normal. The hottest guy is always the one that is waving goodbye. The pursuer / distancer scenario can be like a drug addiction. You are feeling the blow back of the attachment. Read my thread at the top of the section
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