bro Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 (edited) Sorry double post Edited August 19, 2012 by bro
darkmoon Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 i am an older woman and i still get come-ons, things might fall into place at work, if there is the vibe of a deep bond up to marriage even ok, but without that? but then it's time to wait and see, she likes you... are you scoring with an older woman or looking for a lasting realtionship?
showtek1011 Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 I need some serious advice. I am 25 dating an older woman who is 38. She looks like she is 28-30.We have a fantastic relationship. We have been going out for 4 months now and everything up to this point has been amazing. She has two kids who I like very much. We spend almost every day together and cant get enough of each other. I have met her parents and many of her friends, how ever she has not met one single family member of mine or friend. The thing is my mom hates the idea of my dating some one who is 38. She talks so bad about the relationship that it has really discouraged me from bringing my girlfriend around her. My girlfriend and I are at the point where we know this is what we both want and are looking forward to a future with each other. There is a possibility that she is pregnant as well. Lately she has been very emotional and touchy(maybe cause she is pregnant I don't know) but any ways my point is, that today she had a birthday even with friends to go to and she did not invite me. She has not wanted me to spend the night every day like we usually do and she said that since ( I have forgotten to introduce her to my family she wont bring me around people she knows). I know she has a very valid point and I know I really should since we are not taking this relationship lightly. We both really want it to work. But my problem is my mother and how difficult she is going to make this. She doesn't want to meet her, doesn't want me to be with her, is 100% apposed to the idea of me being with an older woman. But my girlfriend feels like she is being hidden and left out. What do I do?
darkmoon Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 the mother is a minefeild your girl needs to know mom's a crow these old cows i am insulting but she is a minefield
showtek1011 Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 I don't really get you're trying to say, but I really need some ones perspective on this because its killing me how she has been pushing me away but I need to have some ideas on how to deal with it and how to bring her around my family. That is all she wants. But it is just so hard.
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