Gosh Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 Hello again! Im having this huge crush on this guy (and im far from a teen... ) He's driven me home a couple of times and in general has shown me alot of signs that he's interested. Last two days though, he seems to be ignoring me as if he's mad or something. Anyways, i can name a few mistakes i may have made. Other then that, his friends are teasing him about me and it is weird cause as i said before, we're far from our teens. So one of my assumptions is maybe he's just embarrassed or he thinks im a tease? Main question is, do you guys ignore women you like? and if you do, what would you want her to do while you ignore them, in order for you to stop ignoring her? Thanks!
rocketman122 Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 (edited) Main question is, do you guys ignore women you like? and if you do, what would you want her to do while you ignore them, in order for you to stop ignoring her? No. I love showing affection and attention to my lady. ignoring and delayed replies are games and I have zero tolerance for that. I believe in being straight forward and if you want, good, otherwise goodbye. yes, yes, no, no..I also tell it up front to those I start dating and simply walk away if they do that. if im mad I need time to myself to be with myself and thought to access the situation and reset my mind. I tell them, but I dont disappear. maybe he's busy? what did you do that he seems distant from you? maybe send him a funny text? Edited August 19, 2012 by rocketman122 1
Author Gosh Posted August 19, 2012 Author Posted August 19, 2012 Hi Rocketman and thanks for your reply! I agree with your way of approaching things. If i like someone, i pay attention, if not, i ignore also. People tell me to ignore him, but its not my type. maybe he's busy? what did you do that he seems distant from you? maybe send him a funny text? Yes he is really busy. When i say ignores me, i dont mean via text or anything, but when i see him, he seems to be mad at me. Of course, this is the second time it happened, so it maybe im just getting anxious for no reason, but id love to be prepared just in case. Thing is, i see him when he is at work, so again, maybe im just being insecure? Should i just give him a couple more days, just in case im being unfair? So i know i cant find out what he's thinking through you guys, although i wish google comes up with mind reading some time soon I still wonder what to do if he really is ignoring me. Let me explain: I dont really like the games either, although i do like the flirting and i can confuse where the line is between those two. I was off the dating scene for 5-6 years, so im rusty. I think i come off too strong to him, but friends say im not. So , i really dont know what to do. Should i just continue showing him that i like him or will that make him run even further? (if he's ignoring me and not just plain busy) What i want to do, is simple math. I like him, i'll show him. Maybe more subtle? So again, another main question: What do you guys really expect from a woman in order for you to be sure that she likes you and for you to make a move? Thanks again!
espec10001 Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 In general, no. If a guy likes you, he wants to see you. 1
utterer of lies Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 Main question is, do you guys ignore women you like? Sometimes. what would you want her to do while you ignore them, in order for you to stop ignoring her? Behave.
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