BeautyRush Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 Okay, last July 12, I booked a 10-day Holiday Getaway with my ex for September 1-10. He dumped me on July 23. Good thing though, my cousins wil be joining the paradise vacation. Now, I was the one who booked and paid for the airtickets and accommodations for both of us. Since my 18th day of NC, he's been contacting me daily (though I never take any of his calls nor reply to his texts) and asking my cousins if its okay with me if he can come along since the tickets are non-tranferrable/non-refundable. I know this is one of the reasons why he's been calling/texting me everyday. Should I tell him he can come but not to expect anything from me anymore? Or just let it go and forget what I paid for him for the holiday? if he's coming then I have the reason the ask for his payments... What do you think guys? Should I break NC to let him know this? I just want to clear things up that I am not making excuses to talk to him or see him because I made up my mind already. I am not going back to him and I have accepted the fact that we will never workout. Period.
2muchlove Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 Okay, last July 12, I booked a 10-day Holiday Getaway with my ex for September 1-10. He dumped me on July 23. Good thing though, my cousins wil be joining the paradise vacation. Now, I was the one who booked and paid for the airtickets and accommodations for both of us. Since my 18th day of NC, he's been contacting me daily (though I never take any of his calls nor reply to his texts) and asking my cousins if its okay with me if he can come along since the tickets are non-tranferrable/non-refundable. I know this is one of the reasons why he's been calling/texting me everyday. Should I tell him he can come but not to expect anything from me anymore? Or just let it go and forget what I paid for him for the holiday? if he's coming then I have the reason the ask for his payments... What do you think guys? Should I break NC to let him know this? I just want to clear things up that I am not making excuses to talk to him or see him because I made up my mind already. I am not going back to him and I have accepted the fact that we will never workout. Period. No. He doesn't need to be there. You made up your mind and him being there will muck EVERYTHING up.
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