If a guy you've been 'seeing' & 'hanging out' with is going on a date with someone ..

[dustpull]

Does that mean you should just instantly give up and move on?

I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now, at first he couldn't stop telling me how much he liked me and how I was very special to him, how I was the type of guy he's always been looking for, and how he can assure me that noone else could sweep him off his feet etc.

Since day 1 of talking he's told me how he wants to take things slow cause he's not fully over his ex yet (1 1/2 yrs together), so he was being mature about it. But we hung out, first time we hung out it felt definitely like a date, when he got home he told me how he really liked me and thought i was special to him. Fast forward 2 weeks after that, he invited me over and we had oral sex. After that he told me he realized that things were moving too fast. At the time, I was freaking out and lost hope, thought I had no chance so I didn't even try. But he still texted me everyday and asked me to hang out..and said that he misses me etc.. So the third time we hung out, it was a great time too, even though he had other plans with another guy on the evening but the guy flaked on him (he said he's a 'friend').

 

Skip forward to today, i just saw his twitter, he posted on Aug 15, 'I won't stoop down to that level. Au revoir. I'm done', which I believe he referred to his ex. THEN he followed the tweet with 'excited for the weekend. haven't got a date in the longest!' .. My heart just broke. I can't believe all this time we've been together hanging out and stuff, he didnt call it a date, and now all of a sudden he's dating.

What's even more weird is how he said he misses me on Aug 16, and told me we should hang out next week.

 

Wtf is he trying to do with me? Should I just stop talking to him? I don't get it..

[InJest]

Stop talking to him. I'd suggest just ignoring him completely and not responding to any further contact from him. He'll probably try to get you back at some point. Just ignore.

[xpaperxcutx]

people have different definitions when it comes to dates, its the simple fact you guys had oral sex outside of an ' official relationship ' tells me he doesn't feel as deeply as you do him.

[mesmerized]

Yes, stop talking to him. You are not on the same page and you are his backup option.

[ja123]

I think he's fickle and is playing with your heartstrings.

 

Move on.

 

You deserve better.

[zanesfan]

I hate to agree with the majority but he is not the one for you, not right now anyway. I know how you feel. It does sound like you may be a rebound to help him cope with the break up. Im sorry you have to go through this. But let me tell you now: move on. Your heart will thank you later.

[kaylan]

I agree with everyone else. You should move on. I dont tell a girl all the things he told you and then go out with another girls. Dude sounds like a jerk off to me and like he wasnt being honest about where he saw things headed...especially if he has it in him to go after other women.

[dustpull]

I agree with everyone else. You should move on. I dont tell a girl all the things he told you and then go out with another girls. Dude sounds like a jerk off to me and like he wasnt being honest about where he saw things headed...especially if he has it in him to go after other women.

 

 

Sigh yeah it just sucks so much guys, i feel like i have to start everything all over again and back to square one.. I really fell for this guy, he was really attractive, smart, nice, and just respectful, complete package.

He led me on like that... So ****ed up

 

Saying 'u made me have butterflies.. Etc.. I can assure i that noone elsecan sweep me off my feet cause i feel as though u already have.. Im definitely interested in you..'

 

Who the **** would say that if ure not interested in them?

****eddd up!!!!!