jadedguy Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 Was with a girl for just a tad over 3 years. We both have kids and met each other's family and friends. I finally broke it off after friends said we weren't in a long term, committed relationship. So what was it then? Although we didn't live together, I spent almost every night at her place for 3 yrs.But she never gave me a key.She never posted couple photos on Facebook till I requested, and then only still once in awhile.Found out she had x-rated IM's with a former date 3 months into our "relationship."On a solo vacation, french kissed a guy and went on a date with another. This was the last straw.Introduced me to male business associates only by name and not boyfriend.Although came to family/friend events at first, dwindled to almost never recently.Found out she had late night phone calls with a male business associate.Found out she met with an ex once.I yelled at her frequently.Preferred my company without my kids.I broke up with her 3-4 times while losing my temper during arguments. She seemed very hurt the first couple times. Didn't jade her the last couple times.She had an abortion. Yes, ours. Was it FWB, commitment phobe, looking for something better? I obviously wasn't what she was looking for, but how can you be in relationship for 3 years and waste all that time especially if you have a kid? And if she was looking for something better, it makes it hard if i'm there every night limiting what she can do.
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