El Brujo Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 Friday night 8-17 I went to a singles bonfire on the beach. Over 100 people showed up, and it was easily the biggest bash on the beach that night. Well, I never cold-approach women when they're talking to someone, because I don't want to butt in... but a few of the guys there told me I look too big, intimidating, and scary for women to cold-approach me. What a shame... I don't think I'm scary at all. I didn't get any big ideas, but I did get off the fence... now I'm definitely going to do that speed dating hosting thing. Besides being able to make a couple hundred bucks a night doing it, I can meet women while doing it. There is a way.
Author El Brujo Posted August 18, 2012 Author Posted August 18, 2012 Define big, how big are you ? 6'6", about 350 lbs. Big enough to warrant the cross-eyed stare.
Radu Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 Are you fat or skinny ? That is pretty ... big. Maybe try adopting a gentle giant demeanor ? Watch Shrek a few times to know what i mean. 1
Imajerk17 Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 (edited) Women don't approach and even though they might be especially physically attracted to you, they aren't going to approach someone your size. Too intimidating. They might especially wish you'd come over to talk to them though. If you are that big, you can approach and because you are physically intimidating, you can (and should) be a Nice Guy to balance that out. And once you are talking to a woman, NO ONE is going to try to butt in! Edited August 18, 2012 by Imajerk17
TaraMaiden Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 6'6", about 350 lbs. Big enough to warrant the cross-eyed stare. that's 25 stone. Big is right..... My ex-H was 6'5" and around 19 stone. (19 x 14...266lbs) We lasted 26 years and divorced for reasons far away from height/weight differences... I'm 4'11 and 8 stone (112lbs) develop charm and get/keep fit. do you enjoy sport at all?
Author El Brujo Posted August 19, 2012 Author Posted August 19, 2012 At first it was amusing to watch people in supermarkets bump into things because they were walking and staring at me at the same time, but nowadays it's just annoying. BTW I finally put my ham radio station together and got it working today... what a shame there aren't more women interested in becoming radio hams. *sigh*
Radu Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 Dude, you're a bear. You have any ideea how many women would want to cuddle with you ? They love feeling small next to a guy. Get that gentle giant demeanor, it will help you a lot.
rocketman122 Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 6'6", about 350 lbs. yea, thats bigfoot size.. im 6'1" and 210lbs but rock hard and I intimidate woman, so how the hell wont a huge Sasquatch like him not intimidate? HAHA! we perceive ourselves differently than others us. just like when you hear your voice being played back to you. so when people tell me/you were intimidating then I believe them.
Radu Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 You realise you are not small when your calf is wider than your gf's thigh. True story ... 6'' and 230pounds ideal weight.
Author El Brujo Posted August 19, 2012 Author Posted August 19, 2012 Dude, you're a bear. Well, I admit that I do have a body hair problem...
Author El Brujo Posted August 20, 2012 Author Posted August 20, 2012 You have any ideea how many women would want to cuddle with you ? Bingo---that's actually my non-sexual fantasy. A woman who likes to be hugged and held would be my perfect match... better than a cat anyway. 1
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