skimmerblake28 Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 I really want to get a girlfriend yet im filled with too much social anxiety to get out there and meet new girls. I don't know how to break this barrier or how to appproach girls my age. Im 16 and male.
MCMLXXXIX Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 What are you looking for? Friendship with a girl, sex or romance? I suggest you don't try to get the three things at once (meaning a girlfriend). Start with friendship. 1
comedox Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 He is right. first you have to know what you are looking for ?? and i would like you to know more about what you like in girls so you can make friendship so easily.
venusianx13 Posted August 19, 2012 Posted August 19, 2012 Learn to go about life with confidence, and have fun whilst doing so... then it won't be such a challenge to "find" a girl, as you will naturally attract people to you. In 15 years of dating experience, I KNOW this to be true.
GLDheart Posted September 8, 2012 Posted September 8, 2012 Just get out there and enjoy life. Don't try to force hookups.. it just gets akward. DO THINGS. Do them in a mixed setting. Make friends and get close with everyone... some of those people will be females... some of those females just may be interested in you back... I think you see how this works. Take it from there.
Freckas Posted September 8, 2012 Posted September 8, 2012 concerts, and politcal event that way you have some things in common already. volunteer at animal shelters. host twilight parties, so many 16 year old girls love those movies. Friendship is great thats how I met my husband and I can say becareful how you treat the opposite sex one may become your girlfriend.
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