Truexfan211 Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 (edited) First post here, hello everyone. Im 22 years old.. And needing advice. So me and my girlfriend of 7 months broke up 2 months ago. She told me when she broke up that she'll end up back with me, and that the break up was not forever. She also told her best friend she'll come back to me etc etc. Well I started making 22 year old mistakes by begging, pleading, crying.. Calling her everynight, texting her everyday. She finally started to ignore all my calls/texts. So I kept on trying to get her to speak to me, and I finally asked her.. Do you want me to move on without you? She answered and said Im scared.. Im scared to let you go completely out of my life, but I dont want you waiting on a pointless cause. I dont know what I want, but I cant make you wait. That was by text message. This was last week. So now shes back to ignoring me. Its been a couple days since ive sent anything to her.. But the last time I tried zero response. Why would a girl tell me shes scared to lose me? but then ignore me. This girl said she loved me still back when we broke up.. She has always been a sweetheart, and Never has played me wrong. We did break up last year, but came back to each other. She said the reason for the break up was because I smothered her. Ive since then understood and told her it was my fault, and i'll change. What Should I do now? She didnt run off to anyone else, shes 18. Not a real party girl, and stresses out alot about school. I love her, and I dont want to be with anyone else. What Should I do? Hopefully we will get some experience answers as this young lad needs em. Will she come back to me? Go easy on me.. Edited August 18, 2012 by Truexfan211
MyHeartTakesOver Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 You need to send her a message saying something like. "I understand if you need space just know that I'm here for you when you're ready to talk. I love you." Then STOP waiting around for her to respond. Get out and do something different. I don't know if she'll come back or not but life's too short for waiting on that sort of thing.
SpiderxMan Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 I was in the same position once upon a time, bro save yourself fom the embrassement and go NC. Your only making yourself look desperate and weak, which is driving her farther away. My best advice for you, be productive as possible. I know that's not what you wanna hear right now, but bro there's better days ahead of you.
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