VodkaShots Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 I would be worrying about the fact his curiosity could escalate into watching the real stuff, whether it's just a fetish or an attraction to young teens doesn't matter. While I don't think he's a potential child molester or anything, it could land him in very serious trouble. 1) You are a hypocrite, what makes the porn you look at and your desires hollier than his? 2) You are insecure, and projecting it as if it is his problem. Did you actually read the OP? It's not the barely legal 18/19 year old stuff, it's the fact he's looked up "fake kiddie porn".
TaraMaiden Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 1) You are a hypocrite, what makes the porn you look at and your desires hollier than his? 2) You are insecure, and projecting it as if it is his problem. A closed mouth gathers no foot. try reading before getting on the old high horse... That's not her point. Lay off the coffee, it's making you jumpy...
SincereOnlineGuy Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 These type of sites are abiding by the law (so they don't get shut down, and can still make money) but are still made to appeal to men who are turned on by a youth/innocence taboo. Re-read my post. Nowhere did I say the sites should be shut down or that it is wrong for them to exist--just that I am personally disturbed by the fact that he seeks this out. It isn't like he is just browsing random stuff, sees a hot scene, and the girl just happens to look very underage. His searches suggest that this is what he's looking for. Furthermore, he decided to go above and beyond to search for "fake kiddie porn" thus suggesting that the run-of-the-mill stuff wasn't doing it for him. HE knows what he wanted to see, and decided to search accordingly. You simply are not getting it. If a 17yo kid roams through the grocery store, and makes goo-goo eyes at the beer cooler, the law doesn't come down upon him until such time as when he might remove something from that cooler and attempt to purchase it up front. In the same way, until such time as when your guy is viewing porn that is clear and documented to be that of humans under the age of 18, you are wrong in condemning him for seeming (if only in your mind) to be doing so. If you don't want to show any regard for the laws which surround your society, or for the young, adult people in that society (who might indeed be appearing in porn, as is their legal right), then you should move away. Somebody turning 18 while still looking 15, and wanting to appear in porn (of course, for the money...) being presented porn-wise AS a "youthful" or "barely legal" girl is as fair as an asian woman wanting to appear in porn and being presented in the "asian" category. Now imagine yourself scolding some random person for looking at the "asian" category. Nowthen, once we have established that the porn in question is legal to create, legal to present, and legal to view, we simply must conceive of the idea that SOMEbody wants to view it!!! The guys looking for real kiddie porn are not on the vast, surface porn-search engines with the rest of us. This is about insecurities more than a lack of common sense, but consider that you're in an arena where you can address your true concerns rather than masking them. Kate Upton turned twenty recently - may we now admire her without drawing your ire, or sparking your insecurities?
TaraMaiden Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 I don't get lusting after a chiseled physique and a 10" schlong, maybe it's because im not attracted to men. You never sound as if you're attracted to women either...
Kofybean Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 I would be worrying about the fact his curiosity could escalate into watching the real stuff, whether it's just a fetish or an attraction to young teens doesn't matter. While I don't think he's a potential child molester or anything, it could land him in very serious trouble. Did you actually read the OP? It's not the barely legal 18/19 year old stuff, it's the fact he's looked up "fake kiddie porn". Only the 25th line of her 40 lined rant mentions anything like that. So either you only read that one line, or you choose to ignore the entire bit. Also, "fake kiddie porn" is not illegal. The OP did not start the thread saying "my bf is a pedophile" which is completely different topic than "my bf looks at porn of girls who are younger than me and I feel insecure about it." besides... no one has answered my question, what makes her porn view that much hollier?
Kofybean Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 A closed mouth gathers no foot. try reading before getting on the old high horse... That's not her point. Lay off the coffee, it's making you jumpy... You did not answer my first question. Reading comprehension issue?
TaraMaiden Posted August 20, 2012 Posted August 20, 2012 Not my question to answer... but she's not objecting to him looking at porn. she's objecting to the under-age kiddie porn he seems to be drawn to.....
Kofybean Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 Not my question to answer... but she's not objecting to him looking at porn. she's objecting to the under-age kiddie porn he seems to be drawn to..... He is not looking at under-age kiddie porn, unless I missed where she said that? If he was truly doing that, then why aren't people telling her to report him to Law enforcement, wouldn't that be the first thing she should do? No, she is not saying that, the original post did not imply that his desires were illegal, it said AND implied that his pornographic desires made her feel insecure. If she has indeed found kiddie porn on his computer, she should report him imeadiately. If there is no illegal content, then my question still stands. What makes her pornographic curiosities better than his?
TaraMaiden Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 Sorry, but she's been very logical and explained everything down the line. if you seek clarification, ask her - but I can see where she's coming from. The guy is attracted to what can only be described as pubescent female bodies. that - as a wife and mother myself - would ring strong alarm bells in my head. And notwithstanding her view and choice of porn - it's not as threatening as his tastes.... frankly - i personally wouldn't hesitate to call it a day - pronto.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted August 21, 2012 Posted August 21, 2012 she's objecting to the under-age kiddie porn he seems to be drawn to..... There has been zero evidence either implied or presented here to suggest that said offender has encountered even one shred of "under-age" porn. And even Traci Lords in Penthouse does not fit among the category of "Kiddie Porn".
Elaine88 Posted September 15, 2012 Posted September 15, 2012 I would be concerend if you wanted to have a family with this man ( or acidentaly have one). If you can not shake the feeling off after 7 months in my experience you will not. It may go away for awhile but the feeling always comes back.
jamesbob Posted September 26, 2012 Posted September 26, 2012 Oh no! Thank God he didn't get to have sex with a girl 29 seconds too young to legally be able to consent. Imagine the terrible things that might've happened if someone had sex with a 17 year old. Im always disgusted when I see these lecherous old women who are at least 19 looking lustfully at my angelic 17 year old cousin, you can just tell these filthy harpies want to take advantage of his childlike innocence. Why can't they just wait 12 days for him to turn 18? seriously, I have been saying this for years. If someone is attracted to a 17 year old they should be locked up. I do not want these predators on my street. If they are so interested in illegal children they should read the Bible. No one in the Bible ever had children before the aage of 18, that includes Mary. God wouldn't impregnate a 17.999 year old CHILD and anyone who is attracted to these children are going to Hell!
ascendotum Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 ^ I'm not sure if you are 'taking the piss' on not, but the common belief is Mary, for starters was only 16. Why does god have girl's menstruate at 12-13 then?
silicone Posted September 27, 2012 Posted September 27, 2012 Personally, I don't look at porn - if I have a sexual experience, I want to have it with my girlfriend and not by looking at something in that way. On the topic though, men do like younger looking women.
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