daniixOxO Posted August 18, 2012 Posted August 18, 2012 hello, well im 19 and hes 21. me and my ex had been going out for about a year and i even used to live with him and his parents for a while. we had our first breakup in april kus he was getting tired of my partying n drinking that was getting over excessive. so we took a week break n he cried n told me to come back so we got back together and i told him i would change. i kept going out kus he didnt wana go out n party with me anymore and he just didnt tell me not to and he got to the point where he couldnt take it anymore and broke up with me again on may 13th. i love him and its really hard to change my lifestyle that i had been living for the past 2 years and he used to love going out with me until he didnt want to anymore n thats where out problems started. and that day we had got in an argument n i was pissed off an i ended up packing all of my things and moving back to my parents. so a week later we talked things over and i said id stay at my parents n not go out anymore kus i wanted to be the girl he fell in love with again and we were talking again n everything was good.. and we kept having sex during that time n thats when i got pregnant. so then around the first week of june i went to party again kus me n my parents got in a fight and thats where he said he was done with me n that i always promised i would change n never did and that he could ony be friends with me. so i tryed to say sorry and that it was going to be hard n that i was trying my best but nothing worked so i accepted his friendship. after that two weeks passed by and thats when i find out im pregnant and i tell him n says he could only be friends with me but that he would be there for his kid... and a day later i went trough his facebook messages n noticed that he had something going on with some 30 year old woman he met at work! so i tryed talking to him into giving me another chance for our baby.. around july he came around and said he would give me another chance... but a few days later i found out he was still talking and having sex with this woman from his job! i told him it was either me n the baby or her so he stopped having everythig with her but she kept txting him that she wanted him n needed him and he only ignored her messages so i know he really did stop what he had with her and we were doing great for a couple of weeks, everything was back to normal and we were actually happy together and about our baby coming.. but it bothered me that the woman kept sending those messages so i got her number and i cursed her out! she ended up threatning me n my baby and called him a boytoy and a few days later i ask him if he is still friends with her n he said yea so i flipped out on him and said a whole bunch of **** i didnt mean n got mad at me n said i start drama over nothing n that im being immature and that he was done with me.. i felt like i could have handled things differently and i wrote him a letter apologizing and just asking him for his patience. so he said come over here n hugged me and we were good again... a few days after that he was ignoring me and i asked hin what was wrong n he said he heard a "rumor" that i was measing around with some guy from my job from before we broke up and that the kid wasnt his! its completely not true and i found out that this girl said all of this to him just kus she didnt like me n wanted to ruin my life !! and hes here believeing her and i showed him the messages between me n the guy were it clearly says that its a lie and i told him that he knows ive never even hung out with him and he would always go through my phone n never found anything about me cheating or being unfaithful. so i txtd him all of this and he hasnt wrote back to me at all. i just feel like hes looking for any excuse to not be with me or the baby kus since the beginning he said the only reason he was giving me a chance was kus of the baby kus he thinks im still going to go out n party after the baby is born. i want to show him its not like that but he keeps making everything complicated and seems like he just doesnt wana man up to his responsibility and idk what to do anymore
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